so my fiance and i are getting married in August 2008 and recently i have been wanting to get pregnant, im on the pill and have been for almost 7 years and im really worried i will battle conceive, i have taken a few test when i have had scares. today i tested and i got what looked like a pos and i showed my hubby and he was quite happy, it turned you to be a false coz i took another one later and it was NEG!! i really would love to get pregnant but i dont know if i want to show at my wedding, why am i feeling this?
why was i so sad when i did the second test and it was neg???
2007-12-25 05:48:05 · 8 answers · asked by momma-to-morgan 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
ok idiot, just to help you understand, the pill does not always work. there are tons of people that fall pregnant on the pill!! i just had a feeling,and my boobs are super sore, im moody and im peeing like a fountain! do you get it now?
2007-12-25 05:56:17 · update #1
sorry, theres my bad temper at the mo. i just want to know why im feeling this way. why was i so sad to see the neg??
2007-12-25 05:58:56 · update #2
False POSITIVES are rare, wait till end of your cycle is due, wait a few more days, if nothing, THEN test again.
Coming off BC pills can make the first few months lell likely, but many people become pregnant first month "free" although for some it takes longer.
If you want to conceive 2 tips from a would be father.
1: Relax and don't stress over it-. Just be naural, and do what comes naturally to couple in love (S E X , plenty thereof)
2 : invest in some ovulation tests to get to knoy your body better, and aim for EXTRA sex on the days it suggests . . . but still "just make love" don't "try to make a baby"
BTW HL2K (or whatever) NO birth control is 100% effective, and I know meny people DO conceive on the pill. If this were not the case I'd have 1 less nephew !!!
2007-12-25 05:53:18 · answer #1 · answered by stu_the_kilted_scot 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When it comes to your August 2008 wedding, I want to say congratulations! I am engaged and getting married 08/08/08. My fiance's bday is 8/07 and our anniversary is 8/10, and my bday is 8/28 so there's a little background.
As for getting married while pregnant, this is 2007 end... It's the marriage and the conjoining love that is what makes you happy. Being pregnant and LOVING the body you are in NO MATTER the time is where you need to focus. My fiance and I tried to conceive the last two months so our child would be due around our wedding date. We are currently trying.
I will still be happy 7 months pregnant on my wedding date. I will be big, pregnant, and in love...
As for thinking you are pregnant.... Trust me, I have been there and my family is KNOWN for getting pregnant on some form of birth control. My son was conceived on the pill. I was conceived with an IUD in my mom. And my baby brother was conceived 13 years AFTER my mom had her tubes tied. So things happen.
I say talk it over with your fiance and see what best fits the BOTH of you. Good Luck
2007-12-25 17:51:13 · answer #2 · answered by star10_over 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you've been on the pill for 7 years, I'm assuming you're just anxious to get started. But a few months more should'nt be a big deal, unless you are in your late 30's and fighting your biological clock. If not, consider getting off the pill and give your body a chance to have a few periods without them. Use condoms for a few months and then by April or May or so, throw all your birth control to the wind. If you get pregnant then, you won't have to worry about showing at the wedding.
2007-12-25 15:35:58 · answer #3 · answered by jeff b 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could be pregnant but too early for it to show on a test. You can try using an early response test and use the first morning's pee because it has the highest concentration of the hormone that detects pregnancy. Try taking a couple more one within a week, then another next week. You can always try to get your doc to do a blood test but they usually don't unless you have some good indication of pregnancy. I would say to wait to get pregnant, give yourself time to adjust to being married and YES, it does change things even if you've been together a long time. There's nothing better for a child than stability, so take one step at a time. Its totally normal to feel sad because if its a welcome positive test, it only makes sense to feel dissapointed and sad. Chances are it could take up to a year to conceive, but that is good because it allows your body to get those hormones gone and get your body back to a good healthy balance before being pregnant. Don't rush things, your baby will thank you for it. I would continue the birth control until at least you get married, then you may want to quit and let your body start getting back to normal. Don't worry and enjoy the moment!
2007-12-25 14:15:47 · answer #4 · answered by Sweetness 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think anyone is really truely ready to be a parent.
I was on the pill for about the same length of time and have been off it for about 3 years.
I am undergoing IVF and really want to have a baby.
I would take another test in a few days or see your Dr for a blood test to see if you are really pregnant or not.
Also who cares if you are going to show at the wedding if you are pregnant the only person who should care about that is you. Dont care what anyone else thinks and if you are really self conscious about it move the wedding date earlier or later.
I would also recommend comming off birth control if you are really considering falling pregnant and using alternative birth control if you are not quite ready and it can also take some time to fall pregnant.
Good luck and enjoy your wedding
2007-12-25 18:39:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well do you want to be pregnant before or after your wedding? I would suggust getting pregnant after your wedding since you really don't know how fast you might gain weight or bloat. You know you want to look amazing in your dress and definately do not want to buy a beautiful dress only to not fit it. Why not stop taking your pills one month before your wedding day but still use condoms until your honeymoon night and then start the baby making then!? Your pills should by ineffective then.
2007-12-25 13:55:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i personally would not want to be 7 months pregnant at my wedding, i would want to feel beautiful. but there is a chance you could still be pregnant. maybe you could move up the wedding date?
2007-12-25 14:59:44 · answer #7 · answered by *Kala* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe I'm missing something, you're "on the pill" but you think you were pregnant...
lets think about this a moment...
2007-12-25 13:52:17 · answer #8 · answered by HL2k 5 · 0⤊ 4⤋