2007-12-25 04:29:38 · 25 answers · asked by rowdyrauch 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
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horrible, horrible man!!
If you plan on cheating on her, why not just end the marriage right here and right now?!?! That's just a horrible thing to do! I want to call you so many bad censored names right now, but this is still your choice! Why not be kind to your wife and just stay with her?... but if you really plan on cheating on her... then please man spare her months or years of wasting her love on you and end everything.
2007-12-25 04:35:31 · answer #1 · answered by tinybubbles 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No. No. No. She will find out and you will have lost all of her trust. There is some reason she feels the way she does. Have you talked to her in a non-judgmental way about the situation ? Might there be a medical reason? What medications is she takend? (some have very adverse reactions in this area.) How old is she? What are the demands on her each day? What are the family responsibilities with children and or parents? Try love, compassion, cuddling, true understanding, support, and more love... but don't cheat.
2007-12-25 12:43:13 · answer #2 · answered by singlegal 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Take a look at the whole situation before you cheat .. I'ts not ok to cheat on your wife. 2 wrongs don't make a right. And sometimes a mans cold *** attitude is why your wife ain't puttin out.Try and make it work spice things up make sure she is ok too.. Get to the source of the problem and tell her how you feel you need intamacy. GROW UP TOO !! There is enough wrong in this world don't make your world worse..
2007-12-25 12:36:52 · answer #3 · answered by Honeyhoney 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
as long as you don't get the mistress pregnant/catch a disease TB/STD's etc. and bring it back home to your wife. And if your young no kids...get a divorce.
IF you've been married more than 25+years STAY.
It's never right to cheat,but if you're going to do it,do it WISELY without hurting anyone and remember at all costs your WIFE comes FIRST!
If she has a "medical reason"for not putting out discuss it 1st before doing so, if there's no solution to her for not putting out then do it discreetly,there's no need to be cavalier about it it wouldn't make you more of a man if you do or if you don't.
If it's for egotistical reasons don't it will bite you back.
If it's medical/age reasons be patient and compassionate towards your partner.
2007-12-25 12:41:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why did she stop having sex with you? How long has this been going on? Have you talked with her? Have you looked in the mirror?
Sexual relations stop or diminish because of stress, resentment and the like. Until you've figured out what the issues are, addressed them, and dealt with them, nothing much is going to change.
Going to find sex elsewhere is a poor idea.
Buck up, be a man, deal with your marriage. If you don't want to deal with it, end it, but don't disrespect your wife by cheating for the sake of sexual gratification.
2007-12-25 12:39:22 · answer #5 · answered by beut_els_guese 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No. Cheating doesn't reflect on who you are with but shows what kind of person you are. Only losers cheat. If you don't want your wife anymore, divorce her first, then go have fun. Be a man, not a little mama's boy.
2007-12-25 12:34:57 · answer #6 · answered by Aiden 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What are you doing to make her want to "put out"? She is your wife, not your middle school crush, right? So "putting out" makes you sound a tad bit immature. With that said, what are you doing to try and make your bed a fun place to be? Sex is emotional for a woman, not just an urge. Make her feel good about herself and be appreciative of what she does do, and you'll have a tigress and more than you can handle. If you want to stay married, do NOT cheat.
2007-12-25 12:42:35 · answer #7 · answered by judy y 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
My answer for you is... are you putting out? Making love for women doesnt start in bed at night. It is an all day afair. It's telling her she is beautiful and meaning it. It's helping cook or cleaning up afterwards. It's understanding that SHE has had a long day too and making love or sex is not always a stress reliever for a woman like it is for a man.
SO... Have you been putting out????
And the answer is NO! it is never alright.
2007-12-25 12:34:50 · answer #8 · answered by bluezombie 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think so. Serves her right too that's a Marital obligation. Its simple when you rearrange the question in another form to help you better understand what she's doing.
If my wife isn't cooking, is all right to go out to eat?
Simple as that!! Been there, done that, just cover your tracks and happy hunting!!
2007-12-25 13:33:01 · answer #9 · answered by trey6z 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion, even thinking about cheating indicates a big problem in the relationship.
Why is she not available? How long ago did it start?
Do men realize that foreplay starts, not in the bedroom, but in the kitchen, the garden, even the grocery store???
2007-12-25 12:37:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
if she dont put out,it means she isnt sexualy interested in you try to take her out and romance her,,if that dont work , you"ll prob never be much more than a roomate,and when she finds someone that does it for her she"ll prob leave or cheat,,id save some cash and get the hell out,, good luck
2007-12-25 13:58:17 · answer #11 · answered by jimmi g 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋