but your not aware of it, or whats hoing on...but you have suspicions that people are using your name and character as riducule.....like people are in on a big secret or joke about you...
and it is to your displeasore.
basically your doing what you have to do in life to go from A to B to C....with the objective of getting to Z
and theirs people laighing at you, ridiculing you behind your back for their amusement.
how do you handle this without losing it and causing some major drama ?
2007-12-25 03:48:51 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
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2007-12-25 03:53:10 · update #1
starry:- dont no what your talking about
i dont believe it hold any relevance to what im saying
2007-12-25 04:07:16 · update #2
Leeeee is right. that you notice and dont do nothing about it shows you can make it to point z without losing face...so you continue doin what you doin and living your life the way you normally have. you get there (point z) faster because they are not there to stop you at every point of the way, they are still have up laughing at something you did before you started at point A. act like it doesnt bother you, coz all they need from you is a reaction, a show of being bothered...and honey, people are people, whether you do something good or bad, they will always find something funny out of anything. leave them to your own amusements and get going to the next point
you'll get there eventually, despite the clowns, just keep on keeping on
2007-12-25 05:47:32 · answer #1 · answered by Dar' Lene Princess 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well,,, ya let them enjoy themselves , you can still get from A to Z infact laughter doesn't slow you down ,if anything it has the guards looking the other way , so you can slip the saw in with the cake ,
2007-12-25 12:47:14 · answer #2 · answered by darkcloud 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself these questions.
1. What could they possibly be laughing at me for?
2. Am I just being paranoid?
3. Why would they be laughing at me?
4. Should I care what these people think?
2007-12-25 12:02:29 · answer #3 · answered by petemctaz 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
sounds like the fact you are aware of it yet havent kicked off straight away shows you are already above it
carry on how you are, find some better friends
2007-12-25 11:57:14 · answer #4 · answered by Leeeee 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Whether people laugh at me or not is not my concern. My only concern is that I've done nothing deserving of contempt.
2007-12-25 12:00:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's good you are on to the game.
Next time pretend you are talking on a cell phone and use their names to make it appear that you're "talking" about them.
They can't prove it's about them, can they?
2007-12-25 12:03:48 · answer #6 · answered by Lerat 4 · 0⤊ 3⤋
smile and give them the big L , lol
2007-12-25 12:00:38 · answer #7 · answered by vintagemale1951 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋