2007-12-25 02:21:41 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
When someone does this I first look quickly inside to see if their criticism has any merit. If so act accordingly, if not ignore it and let them know that it was an unwarranted attack when they have calmed down. Its called self reflection or Rational emotive thinking. It takes practice and patience but its worth the effort.
2007-12-25 02:33:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
I am taken a back and first try to realize the factors that might be disturbing to the other person – but I usually don’t square up until unless I consider reason of harshness is entirely personal or prejudice.
2007-12-25 10:30:15 · answer #2 · answered by Habib 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I love your cat picture! Oh, first I feel very upset. I do not like confrontation, so usually I do not say anything to the person. But there have been some people in my life who did not know when to stop! So I say to them, "Do you feel better now? Because I sure don't."
Merry Christmas!
2007-12-25 12:25:32 · answer #3 · answered by Deb S (SFECU) pray4revival 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
two initial thoughts. 1. Did I do something to deserve this criticism? and 2. Is this person qualified to criticize me?
2007-12-25 11:02:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you lead a public life, criticism is something you have to learn to deal with.
2007-12-25 10:26:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Many people have different reactions. But alot of people will feel threatened at first. Not me i just dont care.
2007-12-25 10:25:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
My feelings are hurt and then I get mad, and like another on here, I will shut these people out. It is easier that way for me. Denial is a great thing!
2007-12-25 10:28:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I will take it if it is a constructive criticism but otherwise there will be a battle of the wits....!
2007-12-25 10:24:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I can't say here in Yahoo Answers.
I have quite the mouth on me if you get me mad.
So just asume it is profane and vulgar and leave it at that.
2007-12-25 11:02:41 · answer #9 · answered by LORD Z 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I usually respond with a penetrating gaze that warns them to be careful with what they say next.
2007-12-25 10:27:25 · answer #10 · answered by Norman 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋