My husabdn and i went to a hotel the other nite talked for five hrs and drank. Whenever i said anything about us he would say don't talk about us. We are seperated. I was really nice to him even though he has broken my heart and i his. He said he wanted to go by me some shoes in the morning because i was drunk this made me cry because he didn't share his military bonus with me. He took me out for breakfast the next morning. He knows he could have sex with me for free because i love him of course he has to pay the hotel like 70 dollars and the alcohol is 40. so he said we can meet once a month it is expensive to him. But why does he do this if he doesn't care for me he doesn't have to buy me things and take me to eat i would b with him for free. My sister said this would b ok if you weren't divorcing but it's kinda LIKE prostitution. Even though we are seprated we are still married i don't see it that way aren't i as his wife suppose to sleep with him in turn as my husband he's suppose
2007-12-25 00:43:46 · 10 answers · asked by poo~poo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
isn't he suppose to buy me things. He gave me 200 dollars for my daughters christmas the next morning after we were together. But if i sit on his lap in the hotel he will let me but he warns me don't get romantic! Does anybody els think he is hiding his true feelings for me because i think he cares but i may think that because i want him to and it could be guilt or he is a nice guy What do u think and is this wrong?
2007-12-25 00:46:03 · update #1
Why are you getting divorced? It's obvious you still have feelings for each other, it seems you're still getting on with each other, you're still having sex with each other. I don't get why you're getting divorced. Can you not sit down and talk to each other about this before you get a divorce because i think by what you've wrote on here you may both regret it. I hope this is the case and you do sort things out. Merry Christmas :o)
2007-12-25 00:51:21 · answer #1 · answered by lol 3 · 6⤊ 0⤋
Stop the madness! If he wants to "get together" with you, do it with a counselor present or don't do it at all! Other then that your just kidding yourself in the hope that he'll snap out of it and come back to you! I know you have more integrity and self-respect for yourself then that! Merry Christmas!
2007-12-25 15:29:57 · answer #2 · answered by Terry H 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
He is a control freak, he has the best of both worlds ! anytime he wants sex your avilable( he must not be getting it any where less) because once he does see you later sister. stand up for yourself and don't give in so easy and see what happens.
2007-12-25 08:58:12 · answer #3 · answered by Carmen C 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is one broken man. If he has to get that drunk to get over the present pain he is experiencing.. thats bad. Why does he have to put beer goggles on to see you through the pain?
This sounds amazingly dysfunctional.
This sounds like a train wreck.
This sounds like its game-over but neither you nor he wants to see it.
What did you do to him?
2007-12-25 08:51:14 · answer #4 · answered by Curly 6 · 6⤊ 0⤋
you broke his heart once and that was enough. He doesn't want to get too close and have you do it again.
2007-12-25 08:58:29 · answer #5 · answered by old-softy 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you ex-hubby is a nice guy and generous... have you tried to talk abt reconciliation?
2007-12-25 08:51:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Boobi, Boobi, Boobi.....
1. He has no feelings for you other than to get you into bed.
2. He has no feelings for you other than to get you into bed.
3. He has no feelings for you other than to get you into bed.
2007-12-25 08:55:13 · answer #7 · answered by snvffy 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
both of you are wacked....you need outside help.....
2007-12-25 08:58:20 · answer #8 · answered by MC 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you go for it
2007-12-25 12:39:52 · answer #9 · answered by panamarandy 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
sorry dear bt i dint understand only................
2007-12-25 08:53:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋