2007-12-25 00:26:33 · 26 answers · asked by Perfectionist 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Make sure he be happy and satisfied.
and don't angry both at a time
2007-12-25 00:40:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wish i knew! I think the best way is to be yourself, be honest and love your husband, i wouldn't say more than you do yourself but just as much. Unless it's yourchild you should never love anyone more than yourself as people, husband or not can take advantage of that without even realisng sometimes. I know! I am trying to be the best wife i can be and i do love my husband more than i love myself, which is why i'm stuck in Germany with no friends, no family and my husband is in iraq. I have no friends coz my husband doesn't like me going out so i've not really met anyone and the people i have met through my husband aren't interested in having me as a friend anyway because i never go anywhere or do anything. I wouldn't mind any of it, it's worth it to make him happy but even this isn't making him happy. I still manage to annoy him and do things wrong even though i don't know what i'm doing, the only time i leave the house is to go to the shop, i don't see what i can be doing?! Don't let yourself get to where i am because even though i still love my husband more than i love myself and always will and i will still try to make him happy but i feel quite unhappy. It needs to work both ways hun, give and take. Merry christmas :o)
2007-12-25 00:33:44 · answer #2 · answered by lol 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your question stinks of sincerity. Thats a good start. A good wife( though difficult to find !) is not a big deal. Just be urself. Understand ur man. Dont hide ur feelings too much. Be polite. Let him feel like a lord but do not do anything u dont like. Convey it in a pleasant manner. Exploit him. Use him. Love him. Thats about it !!!!
2007-12-25 23:11:12 · answer #3 · answered by DC 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
most likely i would say be yourself! dont' be rude! be kind and honest with one another! don't fight at all. don't scream at him, if you don't do that before don't start. have a nice relationship. i think that he married you for who you are. be the person he liked in the marriage. maybe you changed a little bit, which he doesn't like. maybe you are thinking you are not that good of a wife. i believe that you are a good wife. no worries. merry christmas and a happy new year!
2007-12-25 07:51:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
One could be a good wife to her husband, when he is fully pleased with her.
A good wife finds her way into the heart of her husband by
cooking delicious things quite palatable to his tongue!
She takes good care of him and ministers to hi needs and guides him inhis difficulties.
Her care and concern for him,qualifies her to be his"friend, guide and philosopher!"
If a husband could get all that he wishes for in his own house through his dutiful wife, that house becomes "heaven" and he need not go out at all!
2007-12-25 01:30:23 · answer #5 · answered by The Tribune 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Just by being yourself. You don't need to become a servant to your husband to be a good wife. Keep the communication open and do things together to keep your marriage fun.
2007-12-25 00:38:17 · answer #6 · answered by Bears Mom 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sweetheart, is your husband also trying to be a good husband? :)
Well, jokes apart,
Be yourself, being transparent about your feelings will be the best thing that you can do in any relationship.
Don't set any expectations that you can't live upto in long run.
The most common thing that I see in women around me, is that they want to be the best cooks and cook the whole world's recipes for the husband, and go thru the social networking to accomodate all the people her husband is in touch with. In long run, when women get busier with their own lives, it becomes difficult for anybody to keep up with the life that they started off earlier in marriage (Time wise, resources wise) .
Good luck to you !!!
2007-12-25 13:30:40 · answer #7 · answered by Orion 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why do u think u r not good?
luv & understand ur hubby well. negotiate with smile. be the first to ready for compromise. dont make him feel that his life is in vain after he got u; this happens mostly when u get angry sooner without understanding exactly what he wants to tell. It's all that u have to do; we can write anything here. All the best wishes to u.
2007-12-25 00:35:38 · answer #8 · answered by The Best 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is a great question to ask and my answer is simple. Communicate and be honest with your husband. Let him know what is on your mind. Together you are there for each other. Men and women are different and only communication keeps this gap bridged
2007-12-25 00:43:59 · answer #9 · answered by bob c 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
by being kind and respectful, both ways you will have a good marriage. By doing the things you would do if you were with a friend like say thank you, may I help you?
2007-12-25 05:39:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Being genuine,honest,open and transparent,not concealing or suppressing one's own self and at the same time regarding unconditionally other's self and supportive to each other.Don't you think there is a joy in being like that for everybody!
2007-12-25 00:48:17 · answer #11 · answered by Thimmappa M.S. 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋