Do you think when a teen becomes pregnant they should move out of their parent's home?

Question

I mean they are wanting to be adult since they chose to create their own little family so should they burden their parents with an extra mouth(s) to feed depending on if they allow the "boyfriend" to move in with them?

Do you think the grandparent's should still yet buy clothes and food for their teenager that has a child?

I know if i were to have gotten pregnant when i was a teen i would not have wanted to do that to my mom, I would have been too ashamed to say "Mom can i live here and you still yet buy for me and my child plus watch my kid while i go to school'?

Do you think it is right for people to do this? I am wondering why would anyone want to still live with their parents if they have a child of their own.........
(Just a question, no one needs to get defensive)

Why don't they go to the health department in the first place and just get on birth control when after all it is FREE.?

I think it is unacceptable for a grandparent to raise their own grandchild as well.
If i had of gotten pregnant in my teens i would have moved out on my own -one way or the other cause that is just wrong trying to make everyone else deal and take care of something you caused and could have prevented.

To the person that thinks i am talking about myself, i am grown (28 Yrs Old, married and not living with my parents. I am not mad, i am just curious what others think about this.

Answer 1

My view is very simple I as a parent will not raise or allow my child to keep a infant until they can raise it on their own. My daughter is only seven now, but I plan to make that point very clear I know it sounds harsh but I wouldn't even let her have a cat because it is an extra mess and mouth. I love my kids but I only wanted two and two is all I have, it is not fair to ask me as a parent to change my household or thoughts to help raise a baby because the child couldn't listen when I told her to use protection. however I would not kick my daughter out because she is mine and she is my responsibility until she is an adult. As heartless as it may sound I think if she knows her only choices are going to be abortion, adoption, or leaving on her own, ahead of time, it may make her think twice about being careless with her body.

Answer 2

It's true that any pregnant teen would probably feel wrong for doing that to their parents, but what can they do? They could go off and get a job. A minimum wage job. Find a decent home under a housing program. Get on other aid programs. Yes, the teen can do alot of this. But the question is... are the parents really going to let them?

That's still their child. Usually loving parents will not just force full responsibility like that on their own kid. They probably won't accept it either. If I were pregnant, I wouldn't want to do that to my parents. I would be finding a job, doing this, doing that. Everything I needed to do as an adult would. Them though... probably wouldn't let me. They would tell me that I need to keep my head in the books. Just go to school.

So you have to look at it from the parent's point of view. Good parents would eventually help out. That's in their nature for their kid. The kid is unfit to be a parent. That's why the parents come in a help out.

To make a long story short... I would try to move out if I was pregnant and get my own stuff, but my parents wouldn't allow it. They wouldn't feel right to just let me go.

Violet

Answer 3

That is a personal question up to each family to make.
For every family where the daughters got pregnant and have to raise a child at home, there is another family where the children had no children at all, or just waited too long and couldn't get pregnant, and the parents never know what it is like to be a grandparent, and go to their graves never having grandkids - I think that is even sadder.

Answer 4

No, a pregnant teen should not be kicked out. The baby is going to need a stable home to be in. The mother and father both need to find jobs so they can support their baby. If the father is not helping out the mother should try to collect child support. It is only fair. The mother should hold down a job and provide money for daycare so her parents are not the ones doing the work. The mother needs to keep an extremely tight budget so she can save up to move out when she is ready.

Kicking a pregnant teen out is unacceptable. You have to think about the child's life, not just punishing the mother. If the mother is not able to take care of the child properly then it will be taken away from her and put in a place where it can be cared for.

Answer 5

I don't feel like teen parents should be kicked out the house. I think as long as they are in school or working it shouldn't be a problem. I'm a pregnant teen, My parents aren't doing for me. I am working and going to school. I pay my own medical bills, I make groceries for the house, I help with the rent in your house , and I buy my own clothing. I'm getting ready to put myself to college in September.

My parents don't do anything for me that they don't want to do. What they buy for the baby is a gift from grandma to grandchild. I take care of my business myself! Everyone keeps saying there's no need to get defensive! Maybe you all should stop asking stupid *** questions.

Answer 6

It all depends a lot on the relationships within the family and the personality of the teenage-parent-to-be, but I beleive that most parents would offer to their daughter to stay and live in at least for a while because they know what she's heading to little better than her and because they would probably not trust her boyfriend completely at first that he will always be there for her when the tough time comes. No offence any tennage responsible guys, though :) So why to throw away the help, you can move out any time, its harder to move back in with pride in picture and all.

Answer 7

Whether or not they should move out greatly depends on their parents desire. My mom really wants me to stay with her when I have children. And I'm far beyond teen age. I keep telling her that I have no such intensions, sorry. The closest living arrangement I can agree to is to live in separate houses on the same street.
Yeah, I feel it's kind of wrong when babies are having babies and having their parents take care of them all. It doesn't sound fair. But really, it is a personal choise of each family. As long as all family members are happy with the situation it's OK. If parents want them out - they should make every effort to move out as soon as they can.

Answer 8

I think they should, yes.

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it's unfair to just spring the news on your parent(s), and expect them to be all fine and go along with it. Now some parents are far too nice for their own good - and they do deserve better than this.

The responsible thing to do is to move out of home, live with your boyfriend at have him get a job and pay the bills while you bring up the kid.

that's why I think it's responsible to finish school, stay with a guy for 3-4 years, both get a jobs and when it's a good time/half the house is paid off. - then have a kid.

some people just can't wait well enough, hum bad luck for them. They deserve the life of difficult they incur.

Answer 9

NO


a 15 year old is still a 15 year old needing parents.


all that stuff about wanting to be a grown up is total shiot

they fall in love, they do what people who fall in love do.


there parents having been around for a bit should know teenagers are going to fall in love and don what people in love do.


Only also know being very young like everything else abbeginner is doing in school they are likly to mess up and dont know how risky it is.


ergo most teen pregnacies are parents fault as all sensible parents would know teenagers will jahve sex but mess up contrception so should have put kisd on contrception themsleves and see they take it, watch for any medicines that can mess it up, see their kid is very sexaully educated before hand, supply the condoms, ground them if not carrying condoms, having morening adter pills at home, make sure the teen knws they are there.


and if after all that thety still get pregnant sort out abortion pills.



thats what parents are faor as are teachers.


and then getting pregnant in know way makes you a grown up


just a scared kid who is going to have a real hard time

and scum like you werre proably bullies how like hurting kids

Answer 10

Unless the situation needs separation,if your parents willing,
let your child enjoys grandfa and grandmas love and affection.
They are the real pleasure people to brought up and safety
also.