me and my bf both want to have sex so badd, but without me getting pregnant..... how do i have sex without getting pregnant? i'm 15 years old btw
2007-12-24 20:08:15 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
A condom. Doesn't your school teach you about sex ed.
2007-12-24 21:57:02 · answer #1 · answered by It is finally 2008 !! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly? It's simple. Don't have sex! It's the only sure-fire way to ensure that you don't get pregnant. There's absolutely nothing else that guarantees 100% success.
If you must have sex, there are a number of different contraceptive methods such as the birth control pill, spermicide, and condoms. I'd recommend AT LEAST a condom, because it's the only form of contraception that protects against both pregnancy and STDs (Sexually Transmitted Diseases). Go to a pharmacy and buy some, minors are allowed to purchase them
Hope I helped, and good luck
2007-12-25 16:30:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ALWAYS USE A CONDOM!! AND BIRTHCONTROL!! i went on birthcontrol even before i started haven sex! me and my ex were talking about it so i was like well jeez i don't want to get prego, so i got on the pill as soon as possible!. and that was when i was 13, and then i had to go off the pill for a month and now i'm a 17 year old mom! so be careful!! and with some of the people say to get him to do the pull out way, NOT GOOD, there is a thing called precum, and thats how i got pregos
2007-12-24 20:21:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Seek a Planned Parenthood/Family Planning clinic. Get on the pill. You'll probably get examined and all that needs to be done. Once you have your pills, the nurse will explain how it will effect you and when it starts working. Be informed on everything!
Even if the pill is working. Have your boyfriend to use a condom. You have your protection and he has his. Problem solved.
Now, I'm not telling you to have sex. Yet, I'm not telling you to not have sex. Just be careful. I'm pretty sure you know what other teen mothers go through, and it isn't easy. I wish you well.
Violet
2007-12-24 23:56:24 · answer #4 · answered by Violet 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's called not having sex. For me, well, I wouldn't have sex in the first place. But, if I did, by some chance, then getting pregnant would not worry me at all because I would be almost expecting it. But if you don't want to get pregnant, then DON'T HAVE SEX!!!!! It's much better to wait until you are married, and actually ready to face the "consequences", as is the common term (but you wouldn't have sex with someone who had an STD and I don't think pregnancy is a consequence, really, it is a blessing from God (so you see why I'll wait)).
Sorry that was very confusing!
2007-12-24 20:14:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
1 - No condom no sex.
2 - Why do you want to have sex? Have you considered that just "wanting" to have it might not be a good reason. It's not quite the same thing as an ice-cream cone. What are you looking for in sex? What is he looking for? You both might be better off with not quite going all-the-way (and there are plenty of things you can do before going all-the-way) before you understand a bit more about it and yourself.
2007-12-25 00:37:53 · answer #6 · answered by Aryeh M 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Really? You're really asking this question? *Sigh* Well, use a condom, regularly take birth control pills and make sure he takes it out before he ejaculates in you. There's no surefire way to make sure a person won't get pregnant, but this is all you can do. And since you asked this question, make sure you both understand the consequences of having sex and what would happen if you're impregnated and are ready for those consequences.
2007-12-24 20:42:49 · answer #7 · answered by h1u4sxda 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You DON'T. There is NO 100% safe sex (I don't care what you read). There is NO guarantee that you will not get pregnant. There IS this guarantee. . . IF you have sex you COULD become pregnant and you WOULD have a baby to care for the next 18+ years. Do you want that responsibility?
Sex can wait. Sex can wait. SEX CAN WAIT (until you are responsible enough mentally, financially, spiritually, etc.)
2007-12-25 02:01:42 · answer #8 · answered by snddupree 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
15 Y.O is illegal and against low in some places. And if you want to have sex that bad.. Use condoms, the only way and see Doctors they will give you kinda pills that will prevent you from getting pregnant.
2007-12-24 20:24:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would advise not having it at such a young age. The emotional ramifications as well as the possibility of getting pregnant (even with protection) outweigh the pleasure that you receive.
That being said, use condoms. Ever time. If he doesn't have one. Don't have sex. If he says they don't feel good. Don't have sex.
2007-12-24 20:13:02 · answer #10 · answered by Zyggy 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Word of advice get on the pill hun!
I have a 3 month old and I am not even 19 yet.
You can have someone take you to get it. They won't stop you because of your age.
BE AWARE condoms do break!
2007-12-24 20:40:57 · answer #11 · answered by Confused as HELL! 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋