I didn't have anywhere else for her to go and my husband said no...and to be honest neither did I want to have her there. She is a jerk/and aggressive to everybody who tries to help her...and my sister kicked her out because of it...then i took her to the shelter...?
2007-12-24 17:18:02 · 15 answers · asked by Muslimah S 3 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
If you need further help read my 360 page, and she is 43yrs old and told us she was pregnant at 6 months
2007-12-24 17:19:30 · update #1
okay I'm sorry guys...yes a homeless shelter...and she is annoying to the whole family because she is addicted to being homeless...this is the first time I had to put her in one, but she put all of us in one when we were younger soooo...I think she likes this cycle?
2007-12-24 17:24:43 · update #2
The ones that judge you, probably didn't/don't have worthless parents and never had to deal with the stress of having parents like that.
You do what makes you happy and if that means not having her at your house, then that is what you do.
I wouldn't bring my parents to my home, heck, you are a step above me, I wouldn't have taken mine to a shelter, they would be on their own.
2007-12-24 17:32:32 · answer #1 · answered by Ozark Butterfly 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
My mom is crazy too and she too would be homeless but she continues to marry some poor sap before the whole homeless thing kicks in. I don't know what I would do. She is grown and needs to take care of herself. It's not like she is old and incapable.
Do what you do.
2007-12-24 17:33:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I agree with Maria. Do not let anyone tell you you are being selfish and cruel. only YOU know what she is like. Please, use your head. If you know she is unstable, why would you subject your family to her? Think about it before making a decision. It sounds like she could become violent and if you want advice, I'd suggest you don't pick her up and bring her into your home. Visit her at the shelter if it'll make you feel better, but I'd say no to taking her home.
2007-12-24 17:28:09 · answer #3 · answered by Pretty Woman 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Why is she homeless? Why can't she keep a job? Leave her there. When I was forced to go to a shelter, I pulled my head out of my butt and got a job. Now I don't have to rely on anyone and I have a place to live. Good luck!
2007-12-24 17:23:22 · answer #4 · answered by Jupe 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I would, but I think this whole ordeal will teach her a lesson ya know, she will think twice about talking down to her daughter. Especially when she was taking care of her. Talk to your sister, husband, and tell your mom, she better think about what she says and does beforehand from now on. If she did she wouldn't be in that situation to start with.
2007-12-24 17:25:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
I thought my mom was bad! After year in and out of counseling I came to the conclusion that just because my mom went through child birth to bring me into this world does not give her the right to make the rest of my life miserable. You have the right to be happy. Leave her where she is this year.
2007-12-24 17:32:07 · answer #6 · answered by Girl Squirrel 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I feel very sad for you that your mom is having so many challenges. Sometimes you just can't help people who are determined to bottom out. Hopefully she is where she can get some help. There comes a time when you have to say no for the sake of your family.
Still it is very sad and I hope that things get better for her.
2007-12-24 17:30:33 · answer #7 · answered by Ya Ya Vegas 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry to hear about what's happening in your family. I can not tell you what to do. You know her history. Will the pros outweigh the cons? Is she violent? It's hard to do this on Christmas (if you celebrate), but speaking from experience, there are only so many chances you can give someone, even your mother. :(
God Bless
2007-12-24 17:21:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
What kind of shelter a Homeless Shelter???
I couldn't do that to my mom, why did your husband say NO??
2007-12-24 17:19:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Go visit her. Like they all say, "No one should be alone on Christmas". At least go there and show her that you care enough about her to spend the holidays with her . Forget what your husband or anybody else said. Do whatever is in your heart. Remember you only get one mother. It shouldn't matter what she did in the past.
2007-12-24 17:27:51 · answer #10 · answered by Vince 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋