My current boyfriend is the guy for me and i really love him. He says he feels the same and is always talking about our future together and how im perfect for him. Early this morning though he called and for some reason it came up private call when it doesnt normally. It wasnt a big deal to me but i had only gotten 3 hrs of sleep the night before and wasnt feling all that good. Well he calls back a few hrs later and says he wants to break up because I sounded mad when i talked to him and he didnt want to deal with that. Well i explained i wasnt mad and was dealing with very little sleep. After talking about a few other things he said that he didnt mean it and was just mad and is really sorry and everything and says he still loves me. Will this sort of thing happen again or was it just a one time thing? Can i really believe him because my confidence is a little shaken now.
2007-12-24 16:19:16 · 11 answers · asked by monkeytyums 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
No relationship is perfect. You will run into problems like that plus many more. Don't lose your confidence because of it and don't let it get in the middle of your relationship.
Learning to deal with these struggles and learning to be forgiving is what makes your relationship grow strong.
NOw if he becomes hostile and abusive, then you have another problem on your hands and you need to think twice about this relationship
2007-12-24 16:24:17 · answer #1 · answered by HappyCat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm.... I would say that this is a sign of things to come. First off, why did he call you from a private number? Then, why did he break up with you because you "sounded" like you were in a bad mood? Men should already know that us women tend to moody at times, especially with little sleep. This could be a huge red flag... Think about it.
2007-12-25 00:23:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can't deal with the phone early in the morning don't pick it up.
Why is he so quick to break up with you?
You both sound immature.
2007-12-25 00:27:41 · answer #3 · answered by Freedom Rules!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This sort of thing will happen again, because this will be a pattern. I'm sorry that you can't believe him. That is just something you will have to go through. Are you willing to go through with that in your relationship?
2007-12-25 00:22:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel he thinks you may break up with him any day now and he wants to do it before you do it. He is kinda insecure maybe but there's no doubt he loves you he is jsut scared you may leave him.
or maybe he wants a reason to break up with you. (i highly doubt this) just a theory.
he may have called you block to see if you would answer. Were you not answering his phone calls before he called you block?
maybe he just wanted to leave you a voice mail. some times I call someone block know ing that they wont answer just to leave them a voice mail (this is when i don't feel like talking i just want to leave a message or maybe i may think that person is busy already). Yeah its crazy but people are crazy like that.
2007-12-25 00:21:49 · answer #5 · answered by LaToya J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion, he was being serious. Judging by the way you type, you aren't that bright, so we can knock that off the list. You are on the internet instead of doing things in real life, so you definitely aren't pretty. Oh, and I'm gonna assume you're fat. So no **** he broke up with you!
2007-12-25 00:23:52 · answer #6 · answered by Pedro Martinez 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him why the phone call was a private call and why early in the morning.
2007-12-25 00:22:49 · answer #7 · answered by Heidi62 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hello,
Speaking from a four marriage experience, I reckon he's insecure with you and is seeking a little bit more than what you expect of him. Possibly you're not allowing him enough access to your linens? Is he satiated after you've completed oral intercourse?
Regards,
Abdul J.
2007-12-25 00:23:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your confidence is shaken because he got mad at you for acting mad. You excuse your behavior away as little sleep and not feeling well, but you won't excuse his? How selfish are you?
2007-12-25 00:22:45 · answer #9 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
he doesnt sound stable and who breaks up with someone they love so easily.bright red flag
2007-12-25 00:48:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋