im 14 i hate my sister shes annoying how do i deal with her?

Question

she makes fun of me for being short calling me kiddo im 4'10 and shes 5'8, she makes fun of me because i wear tight jeans she says stuff to me like aww a little skater boy. then she says stuff to me like how can you see stuff with hair in your eyes all the time

and yesterday when i said to her leave me alone she picked up my skateboard and held it in the air with her hands so i couldnt reach it. you know i think i need some revenge shes going to regret doing that. oh yeah i didnt mention shes 12 almost 13

Answer 1

Ignore her....I grew up with 5 sisters and a brother. We would fight and call one another names at times then be best buddies the nest minute. That is just normal. Just say you don't care and go on about your buisness.

Answer 2

This may not be obvious but she is jealous. There are three ways to deal with it. Ignore it and when it comes up in conversation tell your mom what she has been doing. The second way is to learn to fight, and be willing to fight. She's treating you this way because she is along with being jealous is also a bully. Once she learns that you won't take it then she will back down or ramp it up. As long as you hold your ground and are willing to thrash her when necessary she'll eventually learn to stop messing with you. The third way is the way I would not suggest but am listing. That is as you put it revenge. Revenge is a bad way to deal with things because it is a slippery slope one which will lead to greater retaliation on her part. My suggestion is to try the first suggestion and see what your mom does about it. If that does not curb the little monster. Learn to fight. Many people would encourage you to not fight, strangely enough as an avowed pacifist I would. Many fights are prevented when the instigator believes the defender can fight back.

Good luck and I can assure you it gets better

Answer 3

well all siblings are annoying of course! First of all, do you have your own room? If she really bothers you, then just close the door and stay in your room. Maybe even lock it ( if you don't have a lock, get a handyman to build one on your door). Then turn the music up so that you can drown out all that noise. If you really want revenge, don't over do it. You don't want to be hurting your sister's feelings. Just pull a little prank and explain to her afterwards why you did the prank. Hopefully, she'll say sorry and not annoy you again. If not, keep pulling unexpected pranks on her and then she'll be scared the next time!

Answer 4

properly, you be attentive to how brothers a sisters combat liek cats and canines. I;m an basically new child, and that i actually get lonely. the thank you to handle this, is whilst she says some thing, say a reliable and susceptible "although" or "greeeat" sarcasticaly, and do in simple terms no longer care. Or greater advantageous yet, walk away. If she takes some thing which you rather desire staggering away tell somebody like your mum. unlike a new child boy "Mummy!!!" yet a watch-rolled one. She'll pass over the attaention and the buzz of wounding you. yet remember, she in simple terms desires to have relaxing. If it quite is insufferable, ell her it quite hurts you. In a letter, or some thing. And whilst she's difficulty continuously help her out throughout returned, i'm an basically new child and the tallest in my grade, and probable the subsequent grade. yet, this could desire to be effectual

Answer 5

Dont worry, one day you will grow bigger and stronger than her. You have until your 20's to grow and girls stop at 18 max(I say 22 or 23 for men)

I used to be picked on by my cousin, hes was like 5'6 (130 lbs) when hes 17
I was 5'4 when I was 12.

Now I'm 20 and 5'11 (175 pounds), and hes 25 and 5'6 haha.

He won't be messing with me again...

Time is your friend.
I know how you feel, I used to be picked on in elemantary school cause I went to a 95% black predomintantly school and I am asian.

But people do mature, no one messes with me anymore.

Answer 6

ok so experience from being the youngest of the family, don't do anything. yeah your sister may be annoying but revenge? come on! If she gets to you that much and youtry to get back at her, it means she's won. Have you ever heard it when people say that they are just trying to get a reaction out of you? If you retaliate you've let her win, so chill and ignore her...though it may be hard.

Answer 7

hehe you sound like someone at my school who all the girls love.

tell your sister if she has nothing better to do then pick on you, then go ahead. just dont let it get to you. sterotypes are retarded...i live in beverly hills and so everyone automatically assumes im a stuckup brat, but im not. i dont live in a mansion, and i dont shop at hollister. i shop at target...which just goes to show that sterotypes are rediculious. tell her shes a giant, and put a large battery on the top of your door so when she moves it, it will fall on her head. also, put katsup packets under the toilet seat so when she sites down the ketchup will splurt out, and saran rap over the toilet seat, so when she pees it will hit the saran wrap-that should get the point across =]]

merry christmas
xoxo,
mary

Answer 8

Don't name call, fur shure! (yes I meant to spell that wrong, don't want people typing at me). She will just punch your lights out! If I was bigger than my older sister and she treated me the way she did, she would be on the floor unconscience before she could get her other foot through the door. MY aunt(my age) was 10 years old and 5'8

Answer 9

im sorry to say but getting revenge isn't the best idea. try ignoring her teasing and ridicule for now because it will only get better once you become taller. As long as shes not physically hurting you the best thing to do is just suck it up or pretend to not care and she will eventually stop.

Answer 10

Damn your typing for a 14 year old is good!..haha..im a skater too, have many pro friends here in southern cali, and all i have to say is keep your head up and dont worry about what other ppl do or say about you. Just skate and do what you love :D And tell your sister to shut her fat mouth..haahah