I am a man who was allready married;but still i loved someone who is 50%younger then me she also loves me but?

Question

thear is one problem allways v have a fight bcos v both r high tempeard ;now she has left and went away after having 3 childrens .she wants to do ajob;which i dont like i want her to be a housewife make our children study& happy she allways want me to bend before her which i did 2 times before now ti is third time this time i wont ;but i love her;& want her to anderstand my feeling no one can be midle in our matter family or friends i my self provide each & every things in the house .she made my children leave the school allso.day by day i am getting mad by my thought idont no where she has gon i love my children very much & they also.i dont no what shoud i do

Answer 1

Have you ever stopped to think that maybe she wants to work to help out and to get out of the house and feel like she is more then just a maid ,cook, taxi, its the year 2007 women don't like to be bare foot and pregnant anymore they want to help[ be a provider for your family as well .

Answer 2

I woman needs to feel good about what she is doing. I had a husband that wouldn't let me be myself. I couldn't go to school work or have friends. I left him 3 years ago and feel like my life has just started. He has learned from it but he learned too late for us. He is happy with a new women now. The bottom line is that you can't decide how other people should live. The old saying goes "If you love someone set them free." If you hold a butterfly in a jar it will die.

Answer 3

You are mad man.. Why won't you let your wife work, what is the matter with you. You should be glad that she wants to work, if you did let her i bet your life would be happier.. You know what find her, and bring your wife back and you have to compromise with her. Sometimes men are stuck in their ways with culture and religion. Times have changed, unless you feel you cannot trust your wife at work. But i think you should think hard, this is about your life and your family. So come on compromise...

Answer 4

HI

YOUR PROBLEM IS VERY SIMPLE AND COMMAN.

IT HAPPENS IN MANY RELATIONSHIP. SHORT TEMPERED WOMAN HAVE THE PROBLEM THAT THERE HUBBY SHOULD OBEY THEM. BUT THIS DOESNT MEAN THEY ARE DICTATORS.

THE OTHER WORD OF DICTATOR IS CARE. SHORT TEMPER GIRLS SHOW THERE CARE BY JUST DEMAND IN WHICH THEY TELL YOU TO OBEY AND THAT MISUNDERSTANDING LEADS TO AN ARGUEMENT.

UNDERSTAND HER AND WHENEVER YOU WANT TO PUT DOWN HER ORDERS YOU CANB DO IT IN A VERY POLITE MANNER OR IN A VERY CUNNY MANNER. IF YOU SAY YOU WILL NOT BEND THEN THE RELATIONSHIP WILL BEND AND SEE IT HAS BEND.

SHE IS WITH CHILDRENS BUT I M SURE SHE WILL BE MISSING YOU A LOT IN HER LIFE.

BRING HER BACK AND TALK ABOUT IT. BE OPEN. SHE WILL UNDERSTAND. IF SHE WANTS TO WORK - ITS OK - BUT TELL HER WHETHER SHE CAN HANDLE THE FOUR THINGS - YOU, CHILDREN, HOME AND HERSELF.

NATUARALLY YOU DONT WANT TO MISS ANY OF THIS - RITE.

BE CALM - TALK TO HER AND BRING HER BACK HOME.

BEST OF LUCK AND GOD BLESS YOU

Answer 5

She has the right to choose to go for a job if she wants to. Your idea of keeping her as housewife is a bit selfish. Place yourself into her shoes. Let her know you would like to compromise. Merry Christmas.

Answer 6

Your spelling is atrocious. A word to the noobs, that type of spelling is for messenger chat rooms. Not forums. You have time to make readable words.

Answer 7

Whatever you are trying to say remains unclear. Your spelling is like a pre schooler,please be more eloquent in future if you want people to help you.

Answer 8

you are fool. why you want to disturb your family? if your wife is educated,she automatically solve all types of family problem...and of course,a maid can do all house work with some payment.go ahead, take your wife back and allow her to work.dnt be SHAKKYI

Answer 9

she.s working to help out many women are lazy when they have to work be glad she cares enought to do that . ..

Answer 10

I have no idea what you're talking about.