i went to a bar this sat and everyone told me i looked pretty and sexy. well my crush did too except when he was really hammered he didnt even flirt with me once, he flirted with all the other coworkers (since we went out from work for a coworkers/friend b-day)anyway he was touchy with everyone, including some guys.and i know he is not bi or gay, he was not touchy with me, except when i arrived at the club, he said i looked pretty.he kept talking about how pretty my hair looked, and he hugged me, thats it,he asked if i wanted a shot and i said no, (iam not 21) iam 20, hes 25, he kept saying afterwards"arent you 19) like as if he wanted me to get kicked out, later when he was very hammered, he kept trying to get me jealous , with the girls i would be talking to , he would tell them how pretty they were and hugg them, ignoring me, at an after party he told me i have pretty hair but didnt like me cuz im weird,then he told this girl that was taking me home to make sure i get there safe
2007-12-24 14:53:55 · 6 answers · asked by angel 2 in Politics & Government ➔ Law & Ethics
the people he was very friendly with that night he isnt normally with at work when hes sober,
i dont understand why he didnt even try to talk to me, please serious answers, whats your take on this?
how can he be nice behind my back, telling my friend to make sure i get home safe and be a mean to my face,?
he's cocky and hes 25 and again im 20 ,
2007-12-24 14:54:40 · update #1
1) Don't go to bars if you are underage
2) Find a boyfriend who does not have a drinking problem.
2007-12-24 14:57:36 · answer #1 · answered by Sordenhiemer 7 · 5⤊ 1⤋
There is not a whole lot to get. Your date was a jerk, at best. I think, he deliberately mistreated you, in an effort to emotionally subjugate you.
Furthermore, there was nothing nice about having someone else, take you home. He should have taken you home. If he was too intoxicated to drive, he should have gone along for the ride, and seen you to the door.
Kick him to the curb, and find a nice guy. You deserve better !
2007-12-24 23:10:44 · answer #2 · answered by Larry 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Why do you think so low of yourself?
You deserve a better guy then him and he is just playing games with you because he knows you like him and he can get away with it. Don't let him!
Find yourself someone who likes you back and can be nice to you always.
2007-12-25 00:25:39 · answer #3 · answered by Kelly R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you should find a new crush. There is someone out there that is respectful of you. Keep your eyes open for him, not the jerk you were with at the bar.
2007-12-24 22:58:23 · answer #4 · answered by justanotherone 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
its sounds like he was interested in some one else at the party and was blowing you off nicely
2007-12-24 23:00:48 · answer #5 · answered by marine_semperfi_jarhead 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Oh please! he is a jerk. when you see him tell him something like "whoa you were pretty hammered touching everyone. Go check is you have a STD".
2007-12-24 23:04:52 · answer #6 · answered by jennfrmny 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋