how do i stop masturbation/maturbating?

Question

how can i stop myself from masturbating

Answer 1

wrap your hands in sandpaper.

Answer 2

Masturbation, like anything else, is not inherently good or bad. It just is. There's such a thing as too much. And, perhaps, such a thing as too little. Masturbation can be a good thing or a bad thing depending on the reason you're doing it.
Do you want to stop for you or becuase you feel it's bad? Escessive masturbation is usually the result of mental obsession. Obsessions are usually about distraction, distracting yourself from painful feelings. Sex is a preferred obsession of people who have issues with intimacy. Not only does it distract from painful feelings but it offers hope of resolution of those feelings.
The first step is to ask yourself how you feel before during and after you masturbate. This is the key to why you're doing it. You do it because it makes you feel a certain way. A way you need to feel. Then ask yourself if there's a way you can feel like you do when you masturbate without masturbating. If you can do this you won't need to masturbate anymore.
Typically, the feeling or idea that sex or masturbation is somehow wrong is part of the drive for compulsive sex. It is an expression of anger and rebellion. "I'm doing something others consider wrong." Your concious mind wants to be good and right but part of you is angry and needs to express that anger.
But, another side. Most people masturbate. Humans are sexual beings. The key is using your sexuality to make you feel good rather than bad.

Answer 3

Hi,

One can stop masturbating if one wants to. Just as one can live without indulging in sex, one can also stop masturbating with some will power. However, since the activity has nothing to be ashamed of and most people do it, there is no scientific reason to discontinue it. If one still wishes to discontinue, then the sexual energy may need to be channelised into alternative physical activities.

Enjoy Life

Answer 4

Don't stop dear. It's healthy, natural, pleasant and enjoyable.
For your prostate health you should ejaculate once per day and masturbation is a pleasant way to achieve that.
Remember, every one does it. Some people lie about it though.

Practice makes perfect so go ahead and enjoy. Try various techniques. Make it last long by the stop and go technique when you have time. Experiment with lubricants...

Answer 5

1st thing you have to do is ( stop watching porn) best way to leave masturbating is you gotta marry as soon as you can and if you cant marry go get a girlfriend that she can love you and hang out with her and keep you away from this.
believe me buddy your life will be gr8.you will feel like a real man. i hope this works.

Answer 6

for 1 week you only masturbate every 2nd day.then the 2nd week you do it every 3 day and so on until you have no days left to masturbate,,,,,,simple when you think about it.i gave up for a mth and then i just started to do it again.i only do it so that i can get a beta night sleep and it also helps to relieve stress of every day life!and it feels nice.

Answer 7

well it won't be easy. The urge is extremely strong. It would take a huge amount of personal discilpine. I guess it is possible althought I wasn't successful.
I wish you every success
Happy Christmas.

Answer 8

Do it as much as you can and when ever you can, i mean just keep doing it over and over and the friction will hurt tooooo much that you cant do it. Or visit the doc for some drugs.

Answer 9

Don't. You may do more harm to yourself forcing yourself to stop, rather than letting naure take her course (The sex drive is a very strong drive)

Answer 10

get a habit, and do it in lie of m-bation. good ones inlclude sudoku, or any of the other games they have at barnes and noble or borders. i like the travel ones so i can play them when i'm visiting someones house.

Answer 11

Just stop if you want to stop