About this time last year I found out my hubby cheated on me with one of my friends and she was 16 years old. not much I can say age of cansent. my daughter was not even 6 months yet and he did this. I was so heat broken. I found out they were talking about marrege and kids. what could I do I was stuped to stay well she finally left and he wanted me back I said ok things were still bad then she came back around she had a new husband to be her own age. Oh yeah and my hubby is 26 years old. but any way I found out he was still in love with her and things got out of hand. She is 17 now but her and I got into a fight and he protected her and then he called the cops and tryed to get me commited saying I was a danger to my self so I was at the hospital for about 4 to 5 hours. It did not work so they let me go then he locked me out of my house then I had to climb in my window and that hurt. it was high up and I am short. any way he then told me he wanted a divorce and he did not love me.
2007-12-24 14:24:38 · 24 answers · asked by adria_kimbrel21 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I am 22 years old.
2007-12-24 14:36:33 · update #1
cheat with me'
2007-12-24 15:19:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Listen...dont let all these angry people tell you to leave your husband. Not all men are say sorry without any meaning behind it. You have to take alot of things into consideration before you decide to stick with this man, like for instance do you still love him? If you dont then why stick around? Is he worth staying with? You have to weigh the pros and cons of being with him. If he only brings trouble and drama to the table then that should be an easy answer. But if you truly love everything else about him then why not give him a second chance? If he's as trustworthy as he says then he wont do it again. But whatever you do...DO NOT NAG HIM! Im sure by now he understands how much he's hurt you. Dont keep reminding him of it. Let it go. How can you say you forgive him if you keep bringing it up? Thats like me giving you money for your birthday...and the next few days asking you to pay me back saying "remember when i gave you that money!" Let it go if you wanna keep him.
2016-05-26 04:13:46 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your in a tough situation, Be strong first thing. Secondly, I know your in love and you want to make it work for you and your family But this man is not good for you he cheated once and you took him back he will continue because you did not make it hard for him to come back. Leave him alone and you will find your own peace there is someone out there to love you the way you need to be love. Move on I know it's hard but you can do it. It's more healthier for you at the end. This marriage is damaged. If he wanted to fix he would have been try ed but it seems he just don't know how. Again stay strong and pray it will be OK.
2007-12-24 14:36:02 · answer #3 · answered by special 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
What should u do? U let his butt go. If it's a child he wants to be w/ then u say BYE! If my man stuck up for someone other then me I'd kick his a** and send him right on his way. Uh uh no way ain't happening! Ur 22, u have ur whole life in front of u, have some fun then find someone that will treat u w/ respect and love u. Good luck!
2007-12-24 14:40:27 · answer #4 · answered by ♥Pure Evil♥ 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
sweetie keep it moving. he is not worth the tears, heartache nor your time. ask him where does he want you to sign. you giving him a divorce will probably be the best thing for you and the baby. its called child support. file the necessary papers so that baby can be taken care of then let him go. you are so better than that. trust me you will find a guy who will love you the way a wife should be loved and he will assist you in the caring of the child. respect his wishes no matter the reasons and let him go. you are better off without him. GodBless
2007-12-24 15:32:52 · answer #5 · answered by Crystal G 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Here's what you don't do--YOU DO NOT BLAME YOURSELF because he is a lying, cheating piece of crap who hit on a minor. You see HIM for the unhealthy thing he is, and you do whatever you have to, including going to a counselor, who can help you see your worth,to keep yourself healthy and be a good parent for your daughter.
You cannot allow his bad decisions to make you feel bad about who you are.
AND, you go to a divorce lawyer now, because if you move out of the house, it might mean that you are abandoning the property, and he might get to keep the house. Only an attorney, can advise you on what to do to keep the house.
The worst thing you can do is to hang on to him because he wants what he can't have and if you actually leave him, it's my hunch that he'll want you back.
Good luck, stay strong, and leave his craziness behind you.
2007-12-24 14:45:39 · answer #6 · answered by bubbagirl 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you need to accept that he is not the person for you. Why would you want to live this drama for the rest of your life? He doesn't love you or he wouldn't treat you this way.
There is a wonderful man out there that will love and respect you. You'll never find him trying to stay with the man you are with now. Good Luck and God Bless!
2007-12-24 15:30:08 · answer #7 · answered by justanotherone 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Leave him for good. He is no good for you. The only thing he thinks about is him self, and that's not good. Those type of guys don't care if they get someone hurt. Its selfish of them but yea. Leave him forever and don't ever look back an to him ever..he is not worth any of your time. You deserve someone much better then him. Get a divorce as soon as possible.
2007-12-24 14:34:52 · answer #8 · answered by blondie 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? You seem young judging by this post, but I may be wrong.
You need to make sure you and your child have a safe place to stay and go there. Maybe he will see the wrong he has done and want to work on the relationship. If he doesn't then you need to move on...sue him for support and possibly alimony and move on with your life.
2007-12-24 14:31:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well shouldn't he go to jail for being with a juvenile. And you should just leave the man alone, I know it'll be hard but it is for the best, he's sick, having relations with a child. You should go and find you a real man. He doesn't know what he wants and locking you out and trying to make you look crazy is childish.
2007-12-24 14:31:39 · answer #10 · answered by tuyet 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Your husband cheated on you last year and you've went through all this with him since then and are still married to him? Crazy! He told you he doesn't love you; I suggest you grant him the divorce he wants.
2007-12-24 14:40:07 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋