I have two twin sons. Both were born with high IQ - 99.6 & 99.7 percentiles. Both studied commerce (accounting) at university. However, one loves girls while the other is homosexual. Also the womanizer loves sports of all kinds, while my homo son loves music.
2007-12-24 12:10:16 · 28 answers · asked by T E 7 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
>.< Does it really matter?
2007-12-24 12:13:22 · answer #1 · answered by Traci, yo. 4 · 6⤊ 2⤋
Thats just they way they are. Just because their twins doesnt mean they're going to ACT the same to. I've got friends that are twins, one of them is a lesbian and the other is married with 2 kids. The lesbian stayed in school and the other one dropped out at 15.
Oh, how can you be born with an iq?
2007-12-24 20:17:07 · answer #2 · answered by kenny c 3 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Hi, this is offtopic, but IQs aren't given in percentiles. You may be talking about either standardized test scores (which measure how much a kid knows, not really how smart they are -- You can be intelligent and still not know much, it has to do with your ability to logic and reason), or you may be thinking of 99-point IQs, which are average.
Also, do you know your one son is gay, or are you just assuming? Maybe he just likes music. If he actually is gay, there isn't anything you can do to change him.
PS: "Womanizing" isn't a positive trait to have. Why would you applaud your son for treating girls like sex objects? Shame on you.
2007-12-24 20:30:53 · answer #3 · answered by Snacks 3 · 5⤊ 2⤋
Firstly, calling one's child a homo is quite mean.
Secondly, are they identical? If they are then it is likely the egg split apart quite early, allowing certain minor characteristics to be different (for example, I knew two completely identical twins who had a difference of four inches in height.)
However I'm afraid genetics can't tell us why people have certain interests.
2007-12-24 20:23:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 2⤋
1) being gay does not affect IQ
2) Although twins, they can have different sexual preferences. I have twin cousins both girls. One is very masculine and the other is very feminine. One swears she is a boy.
3) Your sons need you regardless of their sexuality. So stop trying to change them and accept them for who they are.
2007-12-24 20:34:23 · answer #5 · answered by jen 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
You are born that way and there isn't anything you can do. him being your son, suck a smart and unsuccessful person should be proud of him, not ashamed of his sexuality. i think he should be worried of putting up with someone like you instead of you living with him... imagine if you were in his place and your mom wanted to change you.. i guess that wouldn't feel right would it? the best advice here? learn to love their differences and accept him for the way he is , at least he was honest, and you are only honest to those whom you love.
2007-12-24 20:19:54 · answer #6 · answered by More Than a Second Chance 2 · 2⤊ 2⤋
"My homo son?" There's a loving and understanding parent for you. He's smart. He's successful. And it sounds like he's happy. So, what's your problem? Accept both your sons equally and be happy that they are both smart, successful and happy. They could have turned out to be hooligans spending their lives in and out of prison. Count your blessings and move on to more important topics!
2007-12-24 21:37:10 · answer #7 · answered by SKVY 4 · 4⤊ 2⤋
U may try to persuade him to change but by the end of the day you must let him lead his own way of living
2007-12-25 01:10:38 · answer #8 · answered by yusdz 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Did you choose to be sexually attracted to chicks? No you just are. Use some common sense here. Its a born behavior and if you cant except your son for who he is your the one with the problem, not him.
2007-12-24 20:17:01 · answer #9 · answered by derek w 3 · 3⤊ 3⤋
Yep, everyone blames the music. They were right to be worried about Rock 'n Roll back in the 50's.
2007-12-24 20:13:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
my answer is reason no one perfect but does not matter who are become gay or not same thing with Deaf or not some of them had to accpet who they really are gay or Deaf i grew up as become Deaf later become Gay that is no one is perfect but be happy who u really are then accpet to be happy you would be fine think twice on your own feeling who really u are now and future make sure you are happy who are smile wink
2007-12-24 20:36:09 · answer #11 · answered by mark f 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋