I just hope she didn't make a ham like every year.
FQ: Now that I'm Jewish, who should be my favorite player, club and National squad?
Le Chaim!
2007-12-24 11:02:44 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Sports ➔ Football ➔ FIFA World Cup (TM)
Mon Dieu! Vanessa....that was great!
2007-12-24 11:11:45 · update #1
I really don't think telling her during Christmas dinner, when she is surrounded by other members of your family, is a good idea.
If she is a devout Christian, she will probably be quite upset.
You need to speak to her privately, a good time would be when the festivities are over.
Good Luck:))
FQ: Why should you change the team that you support, just because you have changed your religion?
What does one have to do with the other?
2007-12-25 01:02:18 · answer #1 · answered by Miz Boons 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you're converting, then you should ask your rabbi for advice, not a public forum.
Finding a rabbi to give (binding) answers to life's tricky situations is a requirement and benefit of being Jewish!
(I would hope the rabbi'd say "NO, not on Christmas", and then make himself available with all sorts of advice about how to negotiate this difficult transition in a way that maximizes the honor and dignity for all involved.)
2007-12-25 13:45:35 · answer #2 · answered by Juggling Frogs 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi, I really don't think Christmas dinner is a good time. Maybe you should try after and talk with her alone. I thought about it one time since my boyfriend Zac is Jewish. I just stayed Roman Catholic. Is it your husband that is Jewish? Well, I wouldn't say to do it during christmas dinner maybe have a private talk with her afterwards.
Good Luck!
V. Hudgens <3
2007-12-24 19:09:31 · answer #3 · answered by Vanessa H 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Mazel Tov...Christmas Schistmas, anytime is good. She's your mom, she should love you whatever the hell you decide you want to be.
If she cuts up, just tell her she gets to do Hannukah as well...two holidays in December for the price of one, its a good deal!l
It's spelt " l'chaim " by the way.
2007-12-24 20:48:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it's a very bad time. Christmas is still her holiday, so you should be respectful of that.
If there is ham, just politely say No Thanks. That will start her thinking.
Tell her another time, in a few days. And remind her that nothing else has changed and you still love her!
Mazal tov! Welcome to the Tribe!
2007-12-24 23:07:36 · answer #5 · answered by SheyneinNH 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just tell ur mom that u hope she respects that u are Juwish..
it will take time but she should respect it
my grandmother did wen my mom converted to Islam
and couple years later her mom converted too
2007-12-24 19:07:42 · answer #6 · answered by OVOXO 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Um no, wait at least until after New Years, longer if she's very Christian.
2007-12-24 19:11:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
probobly not wait untill you are sure the time is right and christmas dinner maybe the time depending on her mood.
2007-12-24 19:10:53 · answer #8 · answered by Lindz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think so..find othr private time 4 u both. u dont wanna screw up thexmas dinner with ur family,do u?nway,gud lak !
2007-12-24 19:12:58 · answer #9 · answered by BlossomLilac 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems as good a time as any.
It's not like you are telling her you're gay or something that will ruin the entire day.
2007-12-24 19:11:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋