My boyfriend been ignoring me for bout a week.So i been calling and texting him no answer.So i cussed him out in a couple texts.So he finally texted back say"U need to f*ckin cool out i been sleep". Now i feel bad cuz hes never talked to me that way so i wrote back "sorry" to him. But he hasnt responded since then. Does he not want to be with me anymore?Is he just mad at me? Why cant he just tell me the truth...
2007-12-24
10:40:52
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I called him to apologize for what i said but he didnt answer.So i left a text and hopefully he will apologize for what he said. The week he ignored me i called him a couple of times.I was still angry cuz he stood me up for a date and i got no explanation just sorry for last night.
2007-12-24
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i'm sorry hun. that sucks. but for real, forget about that dude. he's just using the "asleep" excuse to take the blame off him and put it on you. he made you feel bad by telling you he was aleep right? well then there you go. he's just taking the negative attention off of himself because he knows he's doing you wrong, and putting it on you. forget him and find somebody else. who cares if he's mad at you? he's being a jerk and if he cared about you he'd respond to your communication.
2007-12-24 10:45:05
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answered by SpiderDijonRevisted 3
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You are obsessing and that is very unattractive to men. Go for a walk. Call a girlfriend. He may cool down and call you back...they always call back...unless you act crazy. Stop feeling all insecure and here's a rule of thumb, if you feel VERY insecure around a man then you must know it's because he isn't vibing you correctly. In this case it sounds like he was busy. The fact that he wrote the "f" word is a major sign of disrespect unless you usually talk like that.
I wouldn't bother him anymore after today and if he does call back play it cool and tell him that you are sorry for cussing him out and that you were indeed tripping and then be quiet. If you want to live out your life with men you have to cuss out then be prepared for major stress. It sounds like you started this however so you really need a chill pill. Take a bath after your walk but DO NOT CALL. He is not the last man on earth. This is considered needy. Please learn.
I don't agree with everything in this book but it does make sense for someone who needs to train themselves. It is called The Rules. If you have any brothers or cousins who are guys you should know that they just laugh at girls like you who call. They fall in love with the ones who they have to call and wonder where they are. Fact o life my friend.
2007-12-24 10:55:45
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answered by Creole38 4
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A week! This guy sounds as though he as issues. How many times did you call him? He was ignoring your calls, so don't let that guy make you feel guilty for cussing him out. If this is something new then he may have some problems going on that he thinks he can't come to you with. Since he won't talk to you, you should find someone who can communicate. That's what makes a relationship.
2007-12-24 10:57:37
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answered by Out of my head 2
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He was asleep for a week? He must be narcoleptic. You shouldn't have cussed out the poor, sick young man. After all, he answered you as soon as he was able. But are you sure you can put up with his illness? Give it some deep thought. As for feeling bad about it, what's done is done. If he didn't have the decency to tell you about his condition, he should have known that it would create problems. He should have been more forthcoming. You were both at fault to some degree, but is either of you mature enough to have any kind of relationship? I don't think so--not yet.
2007-12-24 10:51:10
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answered by jelesais2000 7
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I'd say that ignoring you for a week is a clear signal that you no longer have a relationship with this guy.
You shouldn't feel too bad about this; teenagers fall into and out of relationships rather easily. Go to a movie with some girlfriends, it'll make you feel better.
2007-12-24 10:44:38
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answered by Anonymous
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That was a long nap that he took. Must have been a hell of a week at work. I wouldn't call or text for a few days let him stew in his own juice wondering what you are up to! Maybe you already know the truth!
2007-12-24 10:46:43
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answered by izzi 2
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Guys are different than girls and you going after him like this is just going to make him pull away.
Try this: Don't call or text him, let him come to you when he is ready. That's what guys do, they go off and pretend to be independant - then when they need coddling they'll seek you out. If you accept this about men, and learn to just be confident that they will come back if you give them a chance to miss you, you will be way ahead for your age.
2007-12-24 10:45:36
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answered by heart o' gold 7
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He hasn't been sleep for the ENTIRE week. There's something else he doesn't want to say. Maybe he's kinda feeling like he needs some space. Give him some space. DON"T text and see what happens. If he doesn't appear to be bothered by it then maybe its a signal that you guys need some time apart.
He's dissing you girl. It's obvious to an outsider. Go out and meet some people in case he gets worse. Sounds like he's trying distance himself.
2007-12-24 10:43:48
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answered by Nikki S 4
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uhm. sorry to say, but if your boyfriend has been ignoring you for a week blaming it on "sleep" then he's just ignoring you. cause i had a boyfriend once that did that too. so if i were you. i wouldn't feel bad for cussing him out. cause i broke up with my boyfriend, and i'm sure that you will find a guy wayyy better that doesn't ignore you :]
2007-12-24 10:45:46
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answered by gracayyyy! 2
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Some people aren't willing to tolerate that type of abuse.
He probably feels as though he won't be able to respect you anymore. He's right. This type of behaviour shows a lack of maturity and selfesteem.
Time to grow up.
2007-12-24 10:50:32
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answered by Anonymous
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