2007-12-24 09:38:35 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Holidays ➔ Other - Holidays
I hate that you feel so sad today and i;m starting to hate holidays as all i think of how sad and alone i am.I am pretty much in the same spot as you and i just been cooking all day and went out and feed the bird ; the raccoons and of course the feral homeless cats and i don;t feel so bad now ; as at least i have some food and a warm house to lie my head...after tomorrow ir should liven up again.I wish they had a place for people like us to go to feel better and not so alone....God Bless you sweetie .
2007-12-24 14:59:13 · answer #1 · answered by Cami lives 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have the ability to visit a nursing home during the holidays you should go. Take a basket of fruit or goodies and pass them out to the patients without family. That way you will be doing a good deed and it will make you feel not so alone. These people there are lonely nearly daily when they have no close family or friends. I am sorry that you are lonely. Merry Christmas to you. I wish you good things in the New Year.
2007-12-24 17:48:06 · answer #2 · answered by justclicktherubyslippers 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
whatever you do, don't be alone! even if you have to go out to some kind of social club, do that! my friends and i always talk about being alone during down times. man, those walls can start to close in on you! so take that invitation from a co-worker that you refused, ride with your friend to her granny's house, or even go to a children's shelter and help out. i guarantee you that this too shall pass. society has commercialized Christmas into being this day when there's nothing but jolly faces and sugar plums. thank God you're here and well, and thank Him in advance for the great times ahead! He just loves that! you're in my sincerest prayers.
2007-12-24 17:52:51 · answer #3 · answered by Crissy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, well then.... Hi Naila. I sent you a message earlier. I hope your Christmas is wonderful. Do you know what I like to do for Christmas? I love roasting marshmallows or singing Christmas songs. If you do not want to celebrate Christmas alone, invite your friends or neighbors. This way everyone has someone by their side.
A poem for a friend.
My friend named Naila
Is not happy on Christmas Day
God give her a warm welcome
Help her not to be alone
But surrounded by others who love her
And let me finsh by saying "HOORAY!"
your friend,
Bloom
2007-12-24 23:17:36 · answer #4 · answered by Bloom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not know your age, but invite another lonely friend to dinner or spend the day going for a ride and treat yourself to good meal. Go home and look for a good movie to watch. First of all look around for another lonely person. Merry Christmas
2007-12-24 17:44:20 · answer #5 · answered by ARLENE H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We don't have much family. Ourselves and our daughter. Lost our other daughter in a car accident. Anyway, we started a tradition of an open house on Christmas Eve with friends and neighbors. It helps. Kind of a "mish mash" of people but lots of them.
Hang in there and try to have a Merry Christmas...
2007-12-24 17:43:27 · answer #6 · answered by seelarke 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to say that nothing really bad has ever happened to me on Christmas.
I can only wish you the merriest of christmases and tell you that even if your family isn't there physically then they're always with you in your heart. ( sorry to sound corny.)
I wish you the best.
2007-12-24 17:51:38 · answer #7 · answered by Boo_Kid3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry to hear that Merry Christmas, check out your local Church services you may find that you are no so alone. Martha
2007-12-24 17:42:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I can make you feel better...My aunt died on christmas eve and my uncle died on christmas day. So no xmas for me! :(
But just remember that even if you arent with your family, they will always be with you in your heart.
2007-12-24 17:42:32 · answer #9 · answered by ravens2superbowl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aww.
Perhaps you can spend Christmas with a friend.
2007-12-24 17:41:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋