undies my wife parades around in!
She is now acting as if she will not wear the stuff anymore because she is mad
Isn't she overracting?
What would you have said, or thought if it was you?
2007-12-24 08:47:47 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
she is mad and she has every right. i cant believe you would do that, its her personal stuff and in no way is she over reacting. i would never want my husband/boyfriend doing that to me. i wouldnt talk to him for a while, or id leave him depending on how bad it was. just know that you cant do that. its her private stuff for her not for family, friends or anyone else.
2007-12-24 08:54:10 · answer #1 · answered by J 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't be mad. I am also newly married, and I know that boys will be boys! I would take it as a compliment that he thinks I am so sexy in these things that he wants to talk to his BROTHERS about it!! Now if he showed all of his friend I might be mad or if he brought out ranchy photos I might be mad...The porn tape we made playing on the TV during a dinner party REALLY MAD!! But not for my bras and panties to his brother. But since she is mad you might want to tell her that YOU didn't think it would be a big deal to her and that you are sorry and love her!
2007-12-24 13:19:35 · answer #2 · answered by Kayleigh 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She is NOT over reacting. Why would YOU , her husband.. WANT your own brothers to picture her wearing that sexy stuff? That is sick. What if they get ideas now that YOU want them to have sex with her and think about her wearing it? Will YOU blame her if one of them rapes her or talks about her with extreme disrespect?
Very backstabby thing to do to your own wife. You are supposed to protect her from ALL men. She is supposed to be so precious to you that you would NEVER betray her in ANY way.
If I were her.. I would start looking for tiny cameras etc in the bedroom or elsewhere.. and then I would start shopping for an attorney.
Gross mistake.
2007-12-24 09:09:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No she is not overreacting. She wears those sexy bras and bikins for YOU. If she wanted your brothers to see them, then she would prance around in it infront of them. I don't think you would like that much, now would you? You should apologize and let her know that you did not know she would react the way she did. Also, tell her it won't happen again!
2007-12-24 08:52:32 · answer #4 · answered by BreANda BO 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why would you want to share such private info with your brothers? Do you want them looking at your wife; their SIL in a sexual manner? Why would you bring your family into your bedroom and sex life that way?
No she's not over-reacting. It was an invasion of her privacy to display her intimate apparel to the public.
Also it's pretty creepy, if it were me, I'd start to wonder what else of our private (sex) life you were sharing with your family, friends and random strangers.
2007-12-24 08:54:52 · answer #5 · answered by Invisigoth 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, I'd have been angry, too. Those are personal items... she's probably very embarrassed that your brothers know what she's wearing under her clothes and is probably afraid they're imagining her in them every time they see her now.
If you haven't already, you need to apologize profusely... and buy her some nice new intimate apparel that only you and she will ever see.
2007-12-24 08:52:43 · answer #6 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why Dave all she wanted was a little privacy you were trespassing. She wanted to be your undercover wh@#$ just for you, now your brothers know, that secert is out the window. UH MAN NOT SO SMART.
2007-12-24 08:58:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Does she normally parade around in them in front of others? Probably not. My advice is to apologize, and never do it again. You will be having to suck up to her for quite a while.
2007-12-24 08:53:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes I would be mad too....men dont sit around and look at underwears and panties for fun....they probably were picturing your wife parading around in them.
2007-12-24 08:52:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
MAN u have a problem. who in there right mind would want anyone to see what there wife or girl friend is wearing in private.....the bad part about it, it makes all men look like a**holes. u are a jerk im not one for name call but u proved it to everyone. if i was her u wouldnt see me in anything like that for about 2 months or more..........
2007-12-24 09:10:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋