2007-12-24 08:30:06 · 42 answers · asked by boo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I'd try and get her phone and check it
But I wouldn't confront them
Change your movements, when would they get together if there was something going on ??
Get more evidence as she may not have meant to send it to him
2007-12-24 08:34:15 · answer #1 · answered by Elle J Morgan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless there was a reasonable explanation for her sending a text to him at 3 in the morning..wanting to know..where he was..I think it would be obvious..that she is either chasing after your husband..trying to cause problems between the two of you..trying to get him to have an affair with her..or he is already having an affair with her..did not show up to meet her..so she sent a text asking him..where he was??If he kept you in the dark about this text..then I would be worried..because people that have nothing to hide..hide nothing...if there was not a reasonable explanation for her text to him..she would be no friend of mine..
2007-12-24 12:54:14 · answer #2 · answered by noga 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a a few close friends...and if they text my hubby wanting to know where is was...I would just laugh...because obviously they were drunk or text the wrong person....
Shouldn't jump to conclusions when you are talking about your friends.....if they are fooling around..there will be more evidence...
2007-12-24 08:39:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends. How did you find out? If he told you, then tell your friend to not do that. Because if something's going on, he probably wouldn't have said anything.
But if you found out any other way, you get to ride his hind end until he confesses to things, and then the ball's in YOUR court.
2007-12-24 09:08:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd think she's got the wrong number, but still ask my hubby about it... I can usually tell when he's lying.
2007-12-24 08:59:47 · answer #5 · answered by floppity 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they are seeing each other on the qt and probably texting too, keep an eye on things over the next while and see if this is the case
2007-12-24 09:25:50 · answer #6 · answered by traincloud 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confront both of them--you may get the answers your looking for and just don't settle for the "oh were just friends" line.
2007-12-24 08:39:32 · answer #7 · answered by shandy1212 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how did you find out? if it was through some innocent course of action, you should ask him about it - in person so that you can watch his eyes.
if you found out because you were searching his phone, that's a bit harder to bring up.
2007-12-24 08:35:14 · answer #8 · answered by cyan_hit 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oops, not good.
First of all what friend - don't call her that anymore.
I would txt her back that hopefully she mixed up the numbers and then make your hubby talk.
2007-12-25 10:45:13 · answer #9 · answered by Sam 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her my friend did this texting thing we fell out because her and him thought it was ok just a laugh but i didnt agree could b harmless enough but do ask
2007-12-24 09:00:09 · answer #10 · answered by henrik 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋