im in the military and adultery in the military can cost you your job and your freedom. i met this guy, he said he and his wife were separated, i just got a divorce, seriously i would not put another woman thru this. But a one time thing, was never supposed to happen. Actually, i was suppose to forget it and act it never happened until a week ago doctor tells me im pregnant. I thought he was supposed to be separated, so when asked i said it was his baby. Now we mightboth be screwed. I dont know what to do. This is my career, i love what i do and i dont wanna lose my job. i dont know how to get myself outta this mess. if there's anything thing you can say. Please dont remind me that i ****** up, i already know that part.
2007-12-24 06:10:18 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Politics & Government ➔ Law & Ethics
you gotta talk it out with this guy. you do that, and i promise you will come up with some kind of solution that works with everyone. honesty is key, i know it sounds cheesy but its true. i know its not the fairy tale ending that you wanted but hang in there!
2007-12-24 06:16:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Which one of you holds the higher rank? I'd think that was the deciding factor who will be screwed.
And regardless of separated or not, you committed adultery and you will be busted. Maybe not kicked out, but loss of a stripe or two and the pay that goes along with that.
Step up and face the music.
2007-12-24 14:24:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't beat yourself up about it. Just find a way to prove the your intent with that man wasn't in a harmful way, and that you knew 100% that he was not in fact married. You'll be fine, just be wiser next time.
Merry x-mas.
2007-12-24 14:19:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im sorry you are going through that. Get that jack a$$ to talk to you and you have to get him to tell everyone he lied. Something will come up. IT was his fault not yours.
2007-12-24 14:20:24 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may not like it, but ending the pregnancy and a doctor who keeps his mouth shut seems like your best option.
2007-12-24 14:18:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
You'll somehow have to prove that you thought he wasn't married.
2007-12-24 14:15:20 · answer #6 · answered by DOOM 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmmm ever hear of contraceptives!
2007-12-24 14:15:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋