I have a friend♥ღ,or,had a friend,he was the sweetest person ever,i can't imagine that our friendship chain is broken for a very silly problem...
I don't know what i'm supposed to do to get him back??
I've a great feeling that he'll never 4give me...
I cried for that,but i don't think that it's gonna change anything...
I'm feeling very bad...
2007-12-24 05:01:21 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
I'm sorry sweetie, you are not stupid. You are not the only one that blame 4all. I admit myself that i'm also have some fault 4not trusting you and saying those harsh words 2you. I never angry with you, your those friends should be blame 4it. I don't wanna break our great friendships. Can we get it back on track and be reunion again? I'll 4give you. Sorry 4making you cried over this silly situtions. Will you 4give me?
2007-12-25 06:13:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Send your friend a note, letter, or card, or give him a call. Maybe a small Christmas present. Tell him you still want to be friends and the problem between you can be solved--at least agree to disagree. Now, here's the hard part: if he's still mad or doesn't want to be friends, you have to accept that and leave him alone. He just may need more time, or he's really through with you. Either way, you've got to give him his space. The hardest part of growing up is accepting the things you can't change. I had a friend that I stood by and forgave over and over. I made one mistake, and she cut me dead. It's not fair--but that's the way it is.
There are new friends out there, you'll read about other people feeling sad and lonely. Wouldn't it be great if the two of you connected? A card, letter, text message means a lot.
btw--you're not stupid, you're only human. Give yourself a break.
2007-12-24 13:13:49 · answer #2 · answered by sugarbabe 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
let him cool off a little bit - give it at LEAST a week.
it might feel like forever but ti gives him time to get not so angry then think about the problem. if it was something little then give him like a week and call him - don't text it makes it impersonable - and tell him how sorry u r. not in a whinning way... just say "im sorry... it was a mistake i made.... i hope u can forgive me...." leave it at that and see waht he says.
hope everything works out
2007-12-24 13:07:35 · answer #3 · answered by ahhh! its a spider!:O 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you did something wrong apologize for it and tell him how you feel, the harsh truth is----If he doesn't want to talk be friends with you right now, you can't do anything to change that and he just might need some time alone for a while, don't pressure anything because it will make things worse(i speak from experience)
2007-12-24 13:05:55 · answer #4 · answered by yankeeboxer 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No sweetie don't be sad...everything is plausible...You can try to start your friendship all over again...If you show him that you are very(veeeeeery) sorry and he still won't talk to you then he has the problem for sure...at least you will know hat you did the best that you could...!!!
2007-12-24 13:05:58 · answer #5 · answered by ? 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Aw, I'm sure if you were really good friends it will work out :)
I'm that much stupid too and people forgive me all the time. Maybe he will be kind and forgive you.
2007-12-24 13:05:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I dont know what happened but just give it some time, things will blow over!
2007-12-24 13:05:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't wanna hear it, if ya kept your legs crossed none of this woulda ever happened..
2007-12-24 13:07:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it won't fix itself by doing nothing, if its a friendship worth saving then you'll do everything in your power to restore it to what's salvagable
2007-12-24 13:05:20 · answer #9 · answered by sexy joker 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you were wrong, and would like a chance to make amends.
2007-12-24 13:04:49 · answer #10 · answered by Granny 1 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋