2007-12-24 04:27:22 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Politics & Government ➔ Law & Ethics
5 days a month is child abuse .i want the same time with im son . He would not even be here if it was not because of me.
2007-12-24 04:49:42 · update #1
same time with spent with kids,equal time with kids
2007-12-24 10:38:16 · update #2
Nothing wrong with fathers having equal time with their kids, but Fathers for Justice aren't really about that - their agenda appears to be much more anti woman - embittered divorced men labelling all women the time. I think that a decent man who wants to do the equal custody thing would do well to stay away from them.
2007-12-24 04:36:34 · answer #1 · answered by Ellesar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well...i have a daughter and my babys dad is an ******. He only wants to spend time with Gracie when it's convenient for him...when i call him to talk about what time to see her the next day, he's too busy to talk at that moment and only calls and get the times set when it's convenient for him! So if you are not like that then AMEN, but if you only see your child b/c the mother doesn't allow it then i'm terribly sorry. I don't think it's right for the mother to not let the father see the child...HOWEVER, I also think it's not right for the father to want to be in his childs life but doesn't want to take responsibility. He only wants to see the child, but doesn't want to pay for anything! I totally disagree with the comment above about the courts being ruled by women. My county judge is a male...and almost every person in my county judicial system is male! Most of the rights of a child go to the mother because infants need their mothers most when they are that young...they need their fathers too, but not so much as their mothers. there's a thing called failure to thrive, and that's when the children aren't given the attention they need from their MOTHERS! So i am definately all for the dads being a part of their childs life...but if they wants to be a father they need to be a dad and literally take care of the child...diapers, food, the necessities...not just seeing their child.
2007-12-24 13:48:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that if your a good father and can spend time with children that u should it takes both parents to raise children,no matter what the courts say.That's our problem we allow the court system to much ruling on our personal lifes.It's up to us to put a stop to the system.If we continue this it will be worse.Our future depends on us.It's time that American's fight back against the system. They are getting as bad about the contolling every move we make. We can't even go to a store unless we see offical's everywhere.We can be stopped just because they feel like it.
2007-12-24 12:39:49 · answer #3 · answered by vickyringer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Father's are being screwed, because the courts are controlled by women. It's not about justice with women, it's their insane obscession with revenge.
Look at the studies all over the internet. They all say that women are the ones oppressing men with laws and the court system. Gentlemen, welcome to Socialism, welcome to the Former Soviet Union, and say goodbye to freedom. Special interests have taken away our rights as fathers, and kicked religion out of our public arena.
In the Bible it says anger and hate are the same a murder... I am not one to judge, I am only repeating what the Bible says... in contrast, women have a pit bull (the courts) at their side, and they are only too happy to unleash that pit bull and bath in the blood of it's wrath....
Whether a man deserves punishment or not, the fact is, you, the woman hold the power of a feminist liberal government at your fingertips, how you use that power will show the true intentions of your heart, is their murder in your heart.... or compassion...? Turn the other cheek.
2007-12-24 12:45:00 · answer #4 · answered by What the heck 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally cried for my dad when I was a kid. The divorce made me wonder and want to have him near. I missed him terribly. I hope you understand you are huge in your kids mind, and its a hole in their young hearts not to hear your voice or words of sweetness. I hope you can talk daily and send little gifts, and cards. Its a true love affair with dads and kids. No onecan replace you.
2007-12-24 12:38:30 · answer #5 · answered by kim 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to be an active parent in your child's life I applaud you. It is a shame you feel that it is a legal issue and that the mother of your child is being unjust - but I wish you well in your effort to be a better parent.
2007-12-24 12:31:08 · answer #6 · answered by Walking on Sunshine 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My son is spending his first Christmas in 9 years 2600 miles away with his father who abandoned him at Birth.
May the Mercy of Jesus bring peace to the heart of my ex-husband and comfort to my son as he spends his first Christmas away from the only family he has ever known.
Although every situation is different, I wish you luck with yours.
Merry Christmas to you dear man.
PS:
Court ordered visitiation- gotta love the liberal judges in Washington State.
2007-12-24 12:34:22 · answer #7 · answered by fire_side_2003 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i will always back fathers for justice - they have rights too which are often forgotten - where there are so many fathers who don't want to play a part in their childrens lives - so those who want to support and be with their children should be supported!!! Good luck and merry christmas
2007-12-24 12:31:11 · answer #8 · answered by tkf57 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Strong beliefs usually come across better when good english, grammar and syntax are used.
Otherwise, one can come across sounding like a boob.
2007-12-24 17:25:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, I agree (within the bounds of safety for the children), but what is your question?
2007-12-24 12:35:40 · answer #10 · answered by Mark A 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋