Bat Mitzvah Help???!!!?

Question

My theme is Winter Wonderland- what do u think
Which dress do u like the best?:
http://www.jessicamcclintock.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/ProductDisplay?catalogId=10002&storeId=10001&productId=128167&categoryId=10325&subcatname=Evening%20Gowns&spage=1&langId=-1&parent_category_rn=10317
(in White)
http://www.jessicamcclintock.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/ProductDisplay?catalogId=10002&storeId=10001&productId=129748&categoryId=10327&subcatname=Party%20Dresses&spage=1&langId=-1&parent_category_rn=10317
http://www.jessicamcclintock.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/ProductDisplay?catalogId=10002&storeId=10001&productId=82546&categoryId=10327&subcatname=Party%20Dresses&spage=4&langId=-1&parent_category_rn=10317
http://www.jessicamcclintock.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/ProductDisplay?catalogId=10002&storeId=10001&productId=127508&categoryId=10327&subcatname=Party%20Dresses&spage=6&langId=-1&parent_category_rn=10317
what should i give out to my guests?
(nothing 2 expensive im having about 200 guests)

What decorations should i have? (no ice sculptures they are cheesey)

And any other advice or ideas you have would be sooo much help! Thanks!!

Answer 1

Part of coming of age, whether by a Sweet Sixteen, Catholic Confirmation, or Bar or Baht (my preferred spelling of the latter's anglicized word, though it really should be "Bas"; hey, I'm OLD, old school", okay?) ;) Mitzvah, is that the adult-to-be must learn to make decisions for themselves.

Would you truly be happy with anything that strangers picked for you? Likewise with your party decorations and favors (that's what parents are for!).

Mazel Tov and L'Chaim! :)