My brother in law and I have never liked each other, I just ignore him, but Saturday night him and my husband went out and my brother in law told my husband exactly what he thinks about me...Of course he had a few choice names for me and my husband punched him in the mouth...How can I get my husband to forget it and talk to his brother, I don't want them fighting....
2007-12-24 04:14:46 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
I can't post the words...The 4 letter C word was one of them...nobody really likes his brother because he just treats everyone like crap...And he has a problem with me from years ago when he came into our home and was smoking weed in our home with our children in the next room...I had a fit and so did my husband, so thats what really started it..He thinks he should be able to do whatever he wants and everyone else should just have to deal with it... Hes just a jerk
2007-12-24 04:41:06 · update #1
No I've never dated his brother
2007-12-24 05:32:09 · update #2
You can't. It's personal, leave it between them.
2007-12-24 04:18:09 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 5⤊ 0⤋
It says a lot about your' character that you want to see your' husband and his brother to stop fighting,even though you don't like the latter.GREAT job at being the better person,give yourself a high-five :)
This disagreement could be an opprotunity in disguise.WHY have you two never liked each other?WHAT would have to change in order for that to be any different?Maybe ALL 3 of you should sit down and clear the air about some things.Yaknow,like it or not,when you said "I do",his brother became a member of your' family.Even if you'll never love him like blood(as nice as that probably would be),maybe you can at least become civil enough to say hello.
If that's not happening,for whatever reason,then just give it some time.Choice words exchanged for a punch in the mouth,I'd say that leaves them about even.They'll realise that for themselves sooner or later,most likely.
Happy Holidays!
2007-12-24 04:34:40 · answer #2 · answered by M 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, this probably will not change. It may from a month at the most. I am familiar with your situation, however my husband is significantly older than me. I do not understand a person watching porn if they have a partner ready and willing and/or doing to you what they are watching and fantasizing about? My husband always says "I am curious", (but nothing gets better) You need him to be upfront and honest with you! Demand an answer so you are not continuing the humiliation and frustration. What will satisfy him? what are you not giving him that he is receiving from the porn? I certainly can not/could not go on the rest of my life with no sex, boring sex or most of all begging for it! Good luck, I wish you all the best!
2016-04-10 23:09:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm. I'd probably keep out of it if your brother-in-law has a problem with you. I guess i'd like to know what problems he has with you specificly to see if they have any merrit or not. Maybe you might act in ways that are abrasive to others? Or maybe this guy is just a jerk that gets off on dumping on others. Either way, I wish you good luck.
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Matt
2007-12-24 04:30:57 · answer #4 · answered by tornadointhesky 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well you could teach your husband how to spell
D I V O R C E. if you take half of everything he owns, he'll have NO money to loan his brother. I'm disappointed you didn't include what his brother said about you. Did you date his brother at sometime? Or you could get a video camera. then the next time they fight ya could put it up on youtube so they can see how silly they look and the need to improve their fighting styles. .... your welcome...
2007-12-24 04:31:58 · answer #5 · answered by who me 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i can see why you dont want a family rift
especially between 2 brothers
think about it from your hubby's point of view
all this time he has known how things are and that you have kept quiet
but your brother in law over stepped the mark, and let his feelings known, your hubby defended you and let HIS feelings known
i would just leave it for now, see what happens
sounds like your bro in law is hard work, your hubby is capable of making his own mind on this
hard, but i would just let it be for now
2007-12-24 04:22:10 · answer #6 · answered by ♠ Merlin ♠ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Thank your husband very warmly for sticking up for you. Wait till he calms down with you hugging him and try then, and mention the Christmas spirit too.
Merry Christmas
2007-12-24 04:23:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Let them deal with their issues. They are brothers and they have their way of coming to terms.
2007-12-24 04:23:23 · answer #8 · answered by Rhythm of the Falling Rain 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I agree with your husband. It is up to the insulter to apologize... If you have nothing nice to say, say nothing at all. I don't believe in violence, but think that would be enough for me to kick somebody's A*ss.
2007-12-24 04:28:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stay out of it. Your husband is old enough to decide for himself. He knew what he did.
2007-12-24 04:23:13 · answer #10 · answered by MoreOfMe 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its kinda their problem to sort out. your husbands brother shouldnt be saying that to him. your supposed to be happy for your family whoever they are with and make an effort for familys sake. and u keep those kind of opinions to yourself.
2007-12-24 04:20:07 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋