I've done some web searching, but I can't seem to find anything specific for this problem. During sex/masturbation, I can't seem to keep an erection most of the time and when I get close to orgasm, I lose it. When I say I 'lose' it, it just dies down suddenly.
This has never been an issue before, so I don't know what's going on. Has anyone else experienced this?
I'm 41 years old and in good health. I've been under a lot of stress lately, but stress has never seemed to affect me sexually in the past.
2007-12-24 03:56:33 · 5 answers · asked by Chris C 2 in Health ➔ Men's Health
i think it is some thing mental
i thought that you are in trouble or some thing take your think away during having sex
so try to be relax if this continue you have to c a docotr
2007-12-24 05:14:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be any number of things...
It could be that the stress is finally causing you to experience this problem.
It could be due to your diet.
It could be that you are extremely bored with the person you are having sex with.
It could be an early sign of a much more serious health problem.
If it is really bothering you and interfering with you living a normal (sexual) life, you should go see a doctor.
I know this will be extremely unpopular in here but, I suggest that you try cheating on whoever you normally have sex with just to see if the excitement of being with someone new cures the problem.
Oh, and in the words of Mick Jagger - "What a drag it is getting old".
2007-12-24 04:57:44 · answer #2 · answered by dizbang7 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Usually when I masurbate, that happens to me sometimes. What I do is just give my arm a rest for a minute or two. Then I go again.
2007-12-24 05:39:15 · answer #3 · answered by Nick Cage 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No offense man! This is not the place for medical advice especially in that area,there's to many crazies on line to insult your intelligence. See your Doctor to be safe.
2007-12-24 04:14:04 · answer #4 · answered by TEC 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
beleive me stress kills. so root out the causes of the stress, deal with it effectively and things will return to normal.
2007-12-24 06:03:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
you are old. Get over it.
2007-12-24 04:01:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 4⤋