2007-12-24 03:35:48 · 31 answers · asked by anil m 6 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
giving,
you give what you recieve. that is basic principle, not many people follow it
2007-12-24 03:41:03 · answer #1 · answered by steven25t 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Love is kind of action, not a passive experience like receiving something. Receiving something stimulates the Judgment to apprehend motive when that self is able to generate the question. Guilt not shame is a possibility on receiving, but guilt is a motivator to avoid and thereby serves motivation negatively. The positive in receiving comes when the positive motivator comes of the transformation of the negative through its universalized realization. From this we arrive at love in giving.
The Will is positive, the Judgment is negative.
All this is mediated in contingent conditions, see the following link: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Abraham_Maslow
'Maslow postulated that needs are arranged in a hierarchy in terms of their potency. Although all needs are instinctive, some are more powerful than others. The lower the need is in the pyramid, the more powerful it is. The higher the need is in the pyramid, the weaker and more distinctly human it is. The lower, or basic, needs on the pyramid are similar to those possessed by non-human animals, but only humans possess the higher needs.' 'Once the physiological needs are met, an individual can concentrate on the second level, the need for safety and security. Included here are the needs for structure, order, security, and predictability.
The third level is the need for love and belonging. Included here are the needs for friends and companions, a supportive family, identification with a group, and an intimate relationship.
The fourth level is the esteem needs. This group of needs requires both recognition from other people that results in feelings of prestige, acceptance, and status, and self-esteem that results in feelings of adequacy, competence, and confidence. Lack of satisfaction of the esteem needs results in discouragement and feelings of inferiority.
Finally, self-actualization sits at the apex of the original pyramid.
2007-12-25 19:33:43 · answer #2 · answered by Psyengine 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is a two way street. Give and receive is the principle of all of love. Growth only comes from appreciation of the gift. There comes a time when in human terms we give up. There is evidence that even God gave up on His original purposes and made new plans. Like when He gave up with the children of Israel and wanted to start over with Moses. This should show those skeptical of limited Foreknowledge that God does not know future events as more then possibilities.
2007-12-26 07:36:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
True Love will never increase or decrease. It's complete and 100% - always and all the time. If not, then it's false material love, which might grow by receiving or giving.
2007-12-26 09:07:39 · answer #4 · answered by shanky_andy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love grows by giving and sharing. The more you give the more you shall receive Love acts like a boomarang.
2007-12-25 23:07:32 · answer #5 · answered by crewsaid 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love grows by giving but giving love to everyone makes you receptive for love. thus first giving and then receiving adds to the growth of love.
2007-12-24 15:15:29 · answer #6 · answered by Raghav Gaur 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Peace and blessings be upon you
the love grow by giving and receiving, but the kind heart gives and does't wait to receive.
sometimes when don't receive love ,may the love prefer to die.
But also , when you give me love , you charge me with love , i give you love .
2007-12-24 14:45:21 · answer #7 · answered by rona 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By giving of course but you must have first and then give you can not give what you do not have....
Even when you do not know your purpose in life it is always better to be of Service to others always and then for sure the love will grow and you will find your purpose in life :)))
2007-12-24 12:23:08 · answer #8 · answered by Rita 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Until you are stable there may be this receiving & giving of love.
You gain more when you give love, to fill the space.
If you are less in love then it grows by receiving.
2007-12-24 22:19:27 · answer #9 · answered by lalachi 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it goes both way, some have more patient and will wait but up to a point.
in either way in order for love to grow you have to compromise, listen, trust, and respect, and take them as they are and never try to change them., because then the feelings will be fake.
another word what ever you give you will receive may be not the same.
what goes around come around
2007-12-24 13:17:32 · answer #10 · answered by not fair 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
i really don't think you need to give or receive to love, love can grow just like that. I'm witness to it.
2007-12-24 13:43:34 · answer #11 · answered by Come again 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋