2007-12-24 00:24:00 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
The odds are that by two years the husband/wife of the cheater already knows. Either they are in denial or they are ignoring the signs in order to maintain their family life.
Take care,
Troy
2007-12-24 00:28:25 · answer #1 · answered by tiuliucci 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
They may already think something, but the one having the affair may be a really good liar. I really didn't know there was a problem in my marriage, my husband didn't talk to me. We were raising kids and I was taking care of his parents. I think he just wanted a fantasy. If your the other woman, you may just be someone he uses to escape life with, he doesn't want to leave wife/family, but wants to use you to boost his ego and not deal with the day to day stresses of life with you.
The wife will probably find out eventually, if she doesn't know already.
2007-12-24 00:36:56 · answer #2 · answered by Nicole 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure they know it. Many families stay together for lack of finances, place to live, and the kids. Relationships become habits and people generally don't like change. To leave a relationship would be to break a habit, good or bad.
2007-12-24 00:32:10 · answer #3 · answered by calendargirl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They probably do know and choose to ignore it... Maybe they like that their partner has some one ELSE to occupy their time... Some people see DIVORCE as failure and refuse to give into it, its easier to hope that it will end and things can get back to normal...
Then there is the OTHER thing...
IGNORANCE IS BLISS; sometimes they just dont wanna know
2007-12-24 00:58:56 · answer #4 · answered by MJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes---sooner or later the truth will surface.
You can run and you can hide---but you are going to be found out, and besides that God knows already, that would be my biggest worry, better get on your knees now.
Cheaters always pay a heavy price; one way or the other.
I wish you nothing but misery.
2007-12-24 00:35:25 · answer #5 · answered by allie b 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
all good things eventually comes to an end. one day the cheating spouse will make a mistake, and everything will come out. things done in the dark always finds it way into the light.
2007-12-24 00:30:19 · answer #6 · answered by ANTHONY B 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
What done in the dark will show in the light, in time all cheater will be expose, because they always leave evidence around someway or another.
2007-12-24 00:34:40 · answer #7 · answered by dbrh_soto 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't have one...but if you have been doing it for 2 years they are either ignorant or fixing to find out. Or.....she could be great at deception...
2007-12-24 00:29:45 · answer #8 · answered by confused<3 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've known for a long time. I guess you can say I'm living in denial.
2007-12-24 12:11:47 · answer #9 · answered by 2blessed2bdissed 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it could happen. Make sure all the pictures are destroyed.
2007-12-24 00:42:03 · answer #10 · answered by cashmaker81 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋