The reason I asked this is because he was married before and he went to see his daughter back home and he is telling me that he is staying at a hotel. However, his ex wife and daughter stays together and last night he didn't talk on the phone with me long as usual. I really think he is staying with her and possibly doing a little more. He has already lied and told me that he wasn't married and to fund out he was before. Can I trust him?Im much younger at 23 and he is 35. I need help from someone because I feel bad.
2007-12-24 00:22:51 · 10 answers · asked by cindy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Once he lied to you about having been married, you should have ended the relationship. If you cannot trust him, there is no relationship.
There is a good chance that he is lying to you. There is also a chance that he is not even divorced. He might be telling you stories just so he is not alone while working away from home.
Take care,
Troy
2007-12-24 00:33:09 · answer #1 · answered by tiuliucci 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are young and you obviously haven't heard the facts of life yet. Before you decide how to think and what to do next here they are:
1. There is no Santa
2. There might be a Bigfoot
3. All men cheat, almost all women cheat
4. Marriage ruins relationships (moving in is the same)
5. Everyone lies (you even lie to yourself)
6. Life is not fair
Good luck and Happy Holidays. Email me if you want to
hear the truth. You can ask me anything. I don't lie unlike
the other answers you will get.
2007-12-24 09:56:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you cant trust him---your initial gut feelings are usually right. You can give it more time, but when a person is dishonest and lie, your marriage is on very shaky ground. He lied about being married? What a lie!
You need too make some decisions, try to make something out of your marriage, or cut your loses (you are very young at 23), and work on finding a better marriage partner.
2007-12-24 08:58:54 · answer #3 · answered by skyward 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he lied to you before chances are he is lying now. If you have the number to the ex's house call it and ask for him in the night so that you can see if he is there all night. When she answers say, He told me he was staying here I really need to talk to him.
2007-12-24 08:27:27 · answer #4 · answered by calendargirl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes he is ,why ,bcos he cheated on you first by sayiny he did not have a wife which was a lie and now it possible he staying with the child mother now remember a cheat is always a cheat.you are only 23 sweetheart relax better man is right at your door steps do not trust him let him go
2007-12-24 08:30:44 · answer #5 · answered by Naja 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sadly , yes . and i guess at this time of year is not a good time --- but in reality --- no time would be a good time .
you need to put it behind you as best you can , and move on .
good luck and try and have a cheery xmas .not a teary one --- life does go on --- and in your case hopefully for the better .
2007-12-24 08:35:42 · answer #6 · answered by bill g 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he might be cheating, and
people are going to be telling u to dump him , but deep down u love him and want to give him another chance, so y don't u follow ur heart and give him another chance if he WAs cheating on u.( just in case he wasn't)
if he continued cheating on u , then dump him
2007-12-24 08:31:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop waisting youe time, he sounds like a knob, date me instead, im young hot and ready
2007-12-24 08:28:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
try to talk to him and make him feel bad
2007-12-24 08:28:38 · answer #9 · answered by Gabegabumpian 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
from what you say about him it sounds like,
liar, liar, pants on fire.
2007-12-24 08:29:58 · answer #10 · answered by Jerry S 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋