can someone plese help me?

Question

me and my boyfriend chris have been dateing for 4 years here latey we have't been geting along we was going doun the road and we was haveing a word fight but nothing big i was mad and telling him i think he might be seeing someone else and he called me a very bad name and i did't like it so i hit him and he lefted me on the side of the road and he blames me for eveything he told me he should have done what he done and that hurt me so bad i love him more than anything he told me if i ever lost him i would lose something really good but i don't know if the fighting is me or him but he said he does nothing wrong its me what do you think

Answer 1

this is in a way your fault by sayin he was cheating on you you need to admit that it was your fault before you lose him

Answer 2

I thinki you two need some time apart to sort through your feelings. You mentioned you think he might be seeing someone else; this is important to find out one way or the other. If he is, then you might have to seriously think of moving on; if he isn't, then you need to work on your jealousy because that, wihtout any solid facts, is a relationship killer for sure. Right now you should write hiim a letter and express your feelings and conocerns and then call him after a few days and talk to him and have over the phone communication for now. And never, ever ever hit anyone while they're driving a car@ Very dangerous!

Answer 3

if u really love him soo much .talk to him .tell him what u think is the problem in ur relationship and ask him if he wants it to work.if he gets all heated up tells u it is ur fault .break up with him before he breaks up with u.because it is going to happen soon. may as well u do it.he seems to have a giant sizzed ego so u will be better of without him.u may be terribly upset but u will get over it.after all he may not be the right one for u.so dont loose hope.try ur best and with dignity. if the worst happens show him that he is not the only fish in the sea and that u r better of without him.i hope the best for ueven if the advice dint work.ALL THE BEST

Answer 4

Fighting in a car is very dangerous.

You both should have a very serious talk about how you feel about each other. Then go from there.

Happy holidays--hope things work out OK.

Answer 5

It takes 2 to tangle and there is always 2 sides to every story. No matter what he called you or say's to you, you have no right hitting him or anyone else, no one does, thats abuse and no one be it man or woman should stand by and let someone else do that to them. Your lucky he walked away and didn't hit you back.

Answer 6

if he was driving the vehicle then its a good thing he left you.you became a danger to both of you and who knows who else.furthermore.life is short and if you fight quite a bit you must break up.makeup sex looses its flare real quick

Answer 7

i can perfectly relate to your situation. i also did that to my boyfriend. i also doubted before that he might be seeing somebody else. DOUBTS- can definitely ruin a relationship. you need to trust him..tell your boyfriend that you sometimes don't feel secured of your relationship and that you don't like the feeling..you guys, need to talk..otherwise, this fight will happen often..if you love your boyfriend-TRUST WHAT HE SAYS..if you want your relationship to work, TRUST AND RESPECT EACH OTHER..tell him that he too, should be sensitive to your feelings..and don't just listen to yourself..you need to listen to him..

Answer 8

maybe its the right time to kick em to the curb and move on down the road to greener pastures.