i know a guy who cheated on his wife. I found out this is the third time it has happened the wife knows about the first woman but not the other two women. here is the kicker one of the other women is the wifes sister! yes thats right he had sex with his wifes sister. should i tell the wife my girlfriend doesn't want me to tell her in fear it will hurt her more but i feel obligated to let her know. I know if it happened to me i would want to know......... what do you think????
2007-12-22 21:26:07 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
it's right to tell her about this. it will hurt, yes but it will hurt more if she finds out that u know & didn't let her know.
2007-12-22 22:00:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let Ur conscious B Ur guide. Some people would say stay out of it - it's not Ur problem but if U R friends with the woman I would think it would B hard 2 look at her and not tell her. I mean he's doing her sister. That's messed up. But consider how messed up she will feel when she finds out and B prepared 2 B a friend - cuz that's gotta hurt. Good luck - U have a tough decision. (I think I would have 2 punch the cheating hubby smack in the face the next time I saw him, whether U tell him U know or not. He deserves it and I bet U'd feel good doing it - I know I would.)
2007-12-22 21:52:19 · answer #2 · answered by godmamaz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I really told you what I think I would get cited. Why do you think this is your business to tell the wife? If a homicide is committed because you told the wife, what do you think that would make you? Leave people's business alone. There was once a very popular song, "Who's making love to your old lady, while you are out making love."
2007-12-22 21:30:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anthony F 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it does any good then tell. Think of a good reason that will benefit the wife then tell. If it is only going to hurt and nothing else, I'd say don't tell.
2007-12-22 21:31:30 · answer #4 · answered by James ™ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey dont get involve too much on that soon to be a bigger problem,but give that lady a clue on whats going on between her sister and her husband,at the same time keep your distance away from them,I know its unfair to that lady about whats happening,but i dont think you like the idea of being the source of controversy right?so just give that lady a good eye opener tell her to be vigilant with whats going on with her husbands cheating scheme, let her caught her husband on the act of cheating,and keep your distance away from it,if she needs information about her husbands cheating ways and if you happens to know about it then just give her a clue and a bit of detail but dont get involve with it cause you will end getting all the blame if things will go from bad to worse
2007-12-22 21:45:48 · answer #5 · answered by Lionel M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes u should..no doubt...atleast she may stop investing emotions into him...it will be a short term loss for her but a long term gain. You will be doing good by telling. Good karma.
But dont turn your back when it comes to proving it, othewise it might bite you back.
2007-12-22 21:31:11 · answer #6 · answered by Mumbaite 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you should def tell his wife. although she'll be hurt, she doesnt need this guy in her life! he isnt treating her good. and cheating on his wife with her SISTER is even worse.
i say, tell her
and she should file for divorce papers
2007-12-22 21:29:15 · answer #7 · answered by hkisrulz 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i know its hard but just stay out of it the wife will soon find out just remember what goes around comes around ..xx
2007-12-22 21:30:55 · answer #8 · answered by x Stacey x 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell because if I were her I would want you to tell me.
2007-12-22 22:04:34 · answer #9 · answered by kim h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If i were her I would want to know.
But make sure you have the proof first.
2007-12-22 21:29:59 · answer #10 · answered by K 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋