I t happened 6 months ago. I made a mistake to her but i already apologized for about 2 times. But she ignored me. So i ignored her the way she ignored me because i still got my dignity. And i kinda cut her from my life because she talked to everyone about our problem from her point of view,so off course she only told that it was 100% my bad. She also tried to influence my other friends to hate me. Is there anyway to solve this problem ? And who's mistake is it ?
2007-12-22 21:14:42 · 13 answers · asked by vivalareine 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
maybe its the right time to kick em to the curb and move on down the road to greener pastures.
2007-12-23 02:04:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a waste of time to have hateful feelings towards anyone. You are giving the problem much more importance than it deserves.
Appreciate your life and those around you. Let the person you got into an argument know that you are the bigger person. Apologize for whatever went down and move on.
If she doesn't accept the apology then so be it.
By the way, apologies aren't only good on Christmas. You can do good deeds and apologize on any day of the year.
2007-12-22 21:24:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi friend,
We always have this idea that Christmas is the time to make amends with our enemies. But the truth is there should be no specific time or date "to reconcile" with a friend. Maybe Christmas season simply brings out the mood to forgive, to let go or to apologize. Going back to your issue. If your heart still wants her to be your friend, then by all means apologize again. How many relationships were destroyed because of "pride"? How many relationships could have been worked out but because of that mentality "If I apologize, then they will think it's my fault", it fizzles out. Reach out to her again. If by saying "Im sorry" again and again means reviving a friendship (or any relationships), then it's all worth it.
2007-12-22 22:04:02 · answer #3 · answered by BERNARD C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no need for you to apologise to her again, u did it once, if she doesn't accept it then thats her fault, not yours. Whos being the better person here? You or her? The mistake is hers, ignore her, maybe one day she will have some dignity.
2007-12-22 21:18:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just try for the last time to apologise to her. Since it's the festive season she might drop it. You should also maybe buy her something little. If she doesn't accept that then they should start to see things from your point of view and she'll look like the bad guy. =] x
2007-12-22 21:24:05 · answer #5 · answered by PlainPinkTee13 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you I wouldn't apologize to your enemy because it's Christmas, because the day after Christmas, Christmas will be over. You could have reason to severely regret making such an apology.
2007-12-22 21:19:06 · answer #6 · answered by "G" 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You already apologised, what more can she ask for?
People tend to only say things from their point of view, and people believe what they hear.
You're not at fault here. Just write her a Christmas card to apologise ONE more time. If she doesn't accept it, it's her problem, not yours.
2007-12-22 21:18:31 · answer #7 · answered by in the mouth 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You already have, so you don't need to apologize again. If you make amends, talk to her and if she continue to ignore you then its her loss.
2007-12-22 21:18:40 · answer #8 · answered by sexy-star 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well all you're telling me is what shes done wrong, but not what you have done wrong to make you have to appologize, but in general if the friendship is worth saving then yes appologize, but dont wait until christmas doll face do it ASAP if its that important to you.
2007-12-22 21:18:17 · answer #9 · answered by hey buddy! 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
this is really ugly.
no you dont need to apologize again.
use your energy for nicer things
2007-12-22 21:17:52 · answer #10 · answered by gjmb1960 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋