Since I am attracted to both, Does being bisexual mean I can't marry and be happy with one gender or sex for the rest of my life ?
2007-12-22 15:21:49 · 12 answers · asked by drpepperok 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
of COURSE not! why should it matter if you are gay, straight, bisexual, whatever?? those are just stupid labels anyways. no matter what sexual orientation you might be, you can always find that one man or woman that you love so much you'd like to spend the rest of your life with them (and if you don't, thats ok! marriage isnt for everyone). don't ever let our stupid fear-driven homophobic society tell you otherwise. love is out there, you just have more options!!
good luck :)
2007-12-22 15:25:43 · answer #1 · answered by She-Who-Must-Not-Be-Named 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
of course you can marry. you just don't know which gender your life partner will be. you can settle down and be faithful. a small percentage of bisexual people have the issue of not being able to settle on one person, but most are fine with finding a life partner. of either gender. let love and happiness tell you which person.
i'm attracted to lots of different men, but i picked just one to be my life partner. it's pretty much the same as you. no matter who or how many you are attracted to, you can choose one to be your life partner.
2007-12-22 23:26:45 · answer #2 · answered by Sufi 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First off I am a early 30's straight male so my answer may be a bit biased. Personally I don't think sexual preference has much to do about finding that one special person, in actuality we all (most likely) hit a point in life where sex and sexual attraction is not as important. Also from my own experience I have found that sex does not lead to a long and happy relationship, therefore I would find it insane to think that you would not find a lifepartner. I would think the most difficult thing would be resisting temptation, most of us only are attracted to one sex (and often times then it is difficult to be faithful to our significant other), so I could only presume it would be twice as difficult for you.
I wish you luck in finding your soulmate!
peace and chocolate
2007-12-23 00:47:47 · answer #3 · answered by p_isfor_pecker 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course not.
Bisexuality just means you don't care what gender your life partner is because you can be attracted to people of either sex.
2007-12-23 12:18:24 · answer #4 · answered by GirlInside 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just recently (well, a little over four months ago) decided to date a girl for the first time, but she's the only one I like and I wouldn't even want to be with anyone else, boy or girl. I believe that when people fall in love they deserve all of and only each other's attention ^^
2007-12-22 23:47:24 · answer #5 · answered by rei_chaka 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're confusing Bisexuality with Poly Amory.
Bisexuality means you are ABLE to be attracted to EITHER gender...NOT necessarily BOTH genders at the same time.
These are two different things that have little to nothing to do with each other.
2007-12-22 23:27:51 · answer #6 · answered by DEATH 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
It depends on you. Nobody can tell you. In the end it just depends on who you meet and have a connection with. Whether male or female that doesnt matter. If you don't get married just remember marriage is not for everyone, and that does not make you any less of a person. Good Luck
2007-12-22 23:29:23 · answer #7 · answered by Cincere80'sBabe 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
My best friend and I made a pact, if we couldn't find a mate of the other sex, we would stay with each other forever. We have found other lovers of the other sex,
for now.
2007-12-22 23:39:46 · answer #8 · answered by crystal89431 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um, no. It means that you can marry and be happy with someone of either gender.
2007-12-22 23:26:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm bilingual, and I'm holding out for someone who can at least speak pig Latin or Croatian, or some other cool language.
2007-12-22 23:28:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋