Your 14 stop having sex!!!!!!!!!!!!Grow up and wait until your body and mind have developed and can handle it. You are immature physically and that's what your body is telling you.
2007-12-22 13:49:08
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answered by Pam K 2
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You know what Dakota, you are to young to be having sex. Sex is something you should do when you are older and more mature. Sex can cause many emotinal problems at your age and even adults can have them. It also can cause deppression. Also, if you werent having safe sex, then there is one reason, and if you have never heard of this before but here it is. It's called cherry poppin'. Cherry poppin is the break of the hymen, or skin barrier covering a woman's vagina, typically with a pointed object such as the penis, so this is probably why, but please be careful next time and it is always safe to wait.
2007-12-22 13:52:26
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answered by Love 3
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You are really just too young to be having sex.. thats why it hurts.. your body isn't ready for that. Concentrate on your gymnastics. Take a look at Jamie Lynn Spears.. you don't want to be a 14 year old mommy do you? Condoms are not 100%.. I know way too many people who got pregnant when they were using condoms. And how old is this boy? Is he sexually active.. you never know what kind of STD's he could give you. Not to scare you sweetie but I think you need to just not have sex for awhile. If this boy really likes you he will respect that and if not hes not worth it anyway.. toss him to the curb!
2007-12-22 14:09:24
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answered by Tammy 1
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Because it hurt! Your perineum was being stretched for one, and you may need to use some water based lubricant for another. Your vulva and vagina aren't used to that kind of use, and while I am not recommending that a 14 year old have sex (I think that's best left until you're out of the house and like, an adult), your body needs conditioning for sex - just like for gymnastics. Next time tell your boyfriend to be slower and use a little KY with your condom (and do use a condom, read the directions and follow them!)
2007-12-22 13:49:07
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answered by Ethel 7
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Sex can hurt for many different reasons. Mechanical reasons alone can cause alot of pain. Personally I am not going to help a 14 year old have good sex. My guess is boyo doesnt know his ----from his ----- and its clumsey.
you might want to wait dear.....I am not a strict moralist but you might start hating sex. I dont think the 24 year old you wants to have a taint on the subject because of the pain you recieved at 14.
You know what hurts at 14? Pregnancy.
2007-12-22 13:48:36
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answered by Matt J 1
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Is it your 1st time? dnt worry I was 14 and I cldnt sit dwn for 3 days. geez girl wait!!!!! I wish to god I did. The guy ur with just now is not a guy ud spend ur life with or at least a good part of your life with Id gaurentee it. I regret it. when ppl turn around and ask you whjo you lost it to you dont want embarras yourself and I guarntee that the ppl that r cool in school r not the ppl that r cool outta school. Anyway the guy I 1st had sex with Id bn going out normal with Id bn going out aqnd it hurt like f k so its normal with bout 8 mths also and it hurt like f k so its normal. Jus don't get caught ouyt with pregancy or anything, if your mature enuf to have sex then at least be mature enuf to deal with it.
2007-12-22 13:58:15
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answered by Tracy M 1
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If you put your fist in your mouth it would hurt too, prolly because you've never done it before....and if you think that hurt, try to imagine how much it would hurt to have a child. Keep that in mind along with the rest of things that you love to do that you wouldn't be able to day if you had a child. Don't be in a hurry to grow up, you'll regret it when you are all grown up
2007-12-22 13:53:56
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answered by Anonymous
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I would like to give you some idea on the subject, but your age prohibit me from doing so. If you have a family doctor check with him or a nurse at school. You may need to talk with you mother. Yea I know it may be tough, but you have put it out on the Internet so mom can not be so bad that she would not want you to talk to her about this. Rather that get a bunch of B.S. that might hurt you off of the Internet.
2007-12-22 13:57:02
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answered by blackheart_987 5
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The hymen causes the bleeding, not necessarily the pain. Your first time is always painful for women. The second and third possibly could be but not as bad.
2007-12-22 13:50:41
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answered by Anonymous
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sweetie when you have sex for the first time its going to hurt. and its going to hurt bad. 14? your a bit young do be having sex right now. you might want to re think what your doing. so many things can happen that your not aware of. i don't want to tell you off and i don't want to scare you but, you have so many years a head of you to be worring about sex rightnow. you could get pregnant or you could get an STD(sexually transmitted decease) that includes AIDs and many other un curable deceases. enjoy being a child you have many many many years to experiance sex. rightnow is not the time hun.please take care of yourself. please go to this website
http://www.teensource.org/
2007-12-22 14:02:28
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answered by Anonymous
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Sometimes it hurts when you have sex for the first time because the vagina muscles aren't used to being stretched like that. You are also kind of young to be having sex to begin with; you may want to rethink that.
2007-12-22 13:48:00
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answered by ? 7
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