omg i am soo scared i am only 14 years old and i just found out i am pregnant my parents are going to kill me should i tell my boyfriend?? WHAT SHOULD I DO??? im not ready for a baby! HELP ME PLEASE!
2007-12-22 12:34:43 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Sweetheart, you should know that other people can see your other questions. You asked other questions asking if you were too young to give your boyfriend oral sex. I doubt you're pregnant if you are asking if you're too young to have oral sex - not too many girls have intercourse and then ask if they are too young to have oral sex.
Nice try.
2007-12-22 12:38:42 · answer #1 · answered by Take A Test! 7 · 4⤊ 2⤋
First of all, don't listen to some of the assholes on here. This site is for getting help, not criticism! And, do not tell your boyfriend before you tell your parents. You need to tell them IMMEDIATELY! Even if you think they are going to kill you, trust me they won't. They are going to be very upset & disappointed, but they can help you through this better than anyone can! Go sit your parents down & tell them you believe you are pregnant, tell them you are sorry, but you would rather be open & honest. In the end, they will be happy that you came to them & were honest from the get go!
I AM REPORTING EVERYONE THAT IS BEING A COMPLETE ***! I'M A 21 YEAR OLD ADULT & IT'S OBVIOUS THAT THIS GIRL IS ASKING FOR HELP, NOT ASKING FOR PEOPLE TO BE COMPLETELY RUDE. YOU ARE THE ONES WHO NEED TO GROW UP!!!
2007-12-22 12:49:28 · answer #2 · answered by Mrs. Loveless 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay hun just relax for starters. Tell your boyfriend and then tell your parents, even if you think they'll be angry. You said you aren't ready for a baby now so you should discuss your options with your parents and boyfriend. Then you should talk to your parents and doctor about birth control options and make sure you're ALWAYS using a condom. Good luck love
& by the way, just because you aren't ready for a baby doesn't mean you shouldn't have sex. There are married couples that aren't ready for children but still have sex. I think the approprate thing to say would be you should wait until you're older and more responsible to be having sex, but like I said just make sure you're on birth control.
2007-12-22 12:40:37 · answer #3 · answered by Chante Alexis 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Tell your boyfriend, and then your parents. Don't have the bf there when u tell your parents- they may try to kill him. your parents may be dissapointed, but they love you and won't kill you. Please give the baby up for adoption or keep it, plz dont have an abortion- I believe it is murder, and also it would be really hard on your bdy right now. Don't worry, alot of girls end up going through this, although they shouldnt. I'm 14 too. God bless.
~Mercutia
2007-12-22 12:40:17 · answer #4 · answered by Mercutia 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
okay first of all you are lieing and this really isnt funny why would u post a question about ur not sure to give a guy a ******* now this okay i actually really am 14 and pregnant and if u think its funny to lie about this it really isnt and i take this kinda seriously because you are making people waste there time answering you when you are lieing when the people can be helping others out and some some fake question u thought it would be funny to post.
2007-12-22 19:22:54 · answer #5 · answered by Alexa Nicole 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
theres no need to freak out.
you just need to stay calm.
and think about your options?
do you want to keep this baby?
do you have the support and financial help to take care of this baby?
do you want to give up your teenage years to care for somebody who depends on you?
you have to tell your parents, as soon as possible.
im 16 and almost 14 weeks pregnant.
and from personal experience.
you need your parents support.
now telling the boyfriend, has to be done.
whether or not you think hes going to accept it or not.
it is still his child too.
just relax, and enjoy the christmas holidays.
maybe waiting till after christmas would be a good idea to tell your parents.
ahah.
but yes, if you plan on keeping this baby.
you have to start getting prenatal care, and book an appointment with your doctor, asap.
good luckk!
happy holidayss!
2007-12-22 12:40:09 · answer #6 · answered by sarahjane.x 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
heyy there...well firts i think your too young to be having sex...anyways did u use a condom or did it brake???cuase ifu didnt that was a mistake i meean u should knw...now bout yur parents your ganna have to tell them becuase honestly there the only one that can really help you right now there not ganna kill your, and about your boyfriend well you should of been more carefull and your ganna have to tll him too...just tell your parents firt...good luck =)
2007-12-22 12:47:52 · answer #7 · answered by ...:Flakaaa:... . 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am very sorry to hear this and you need to tell your parents right away that you made a huge mistake....and then lead into it. Word of Advice: DON'T HAVE SEX WHEN YOU ARE 14!!!
2007-12-22 12:38:32 · answer #8 · answered by TJ 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It's great that your pregnant! 14 is not the best age to get pregnant but it is still fine. DO NOT TELL YOUR PARENTS until 2 weks pregnant tell them later. Hope i help if you need any more help email me at girlfriend66@gmail.com
2007-12-22 12:47:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
tell yur parents they will help you they wont kill you i understand that your scared your 14 and having sex but it happened soo be strong and tell your parents they will support you good luck !!!!!!!!
2007-12-22 12:53:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't feel sorry for you. Your last 2 questions you stated you wanted to give a boy a bj really bad...shows where your morals are. Merry Christmas!
2007-12-22 12:42:13 · answer #11 · answered by Jem 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋