I always wondered that.. My two classmates started a relationship, when they just have casual sex. Earlier, I asked a question about my class giving each other lap dances. Now two of them are starting to have casual sex. I just found out when my friends was calling and texting me. The sad part is that that was their first time. Now when they walk by each other, they act like they don't know each other! What the heck! Isn't sex suppose to be emotional especially with their first one? One is 16 and the other is 13. They are in the 8th Grade.
2007-12-22 12:21:20 · 26 answers · asked by Deniece 4 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Thanks for the laugh,cowboydanimal... You probably had one too..
2007-12-22 12:27:47 · update #1
I don't know why he is still in middle school.. He is like a wanna-be gangster... Tattoos all over his arm, flirting with most of the girls.. We don't really talk... He just asks for some stuff from me (NOT THAT KIND OF WAY,PERVERTYS!!)
2007-12-22 12:31:26 · update #2
They both confirmed it themselves! My friend, those two, and I was on the phone and we was talking about it. They talked about for about 5 seconds... They just say "We just sleeping buddies" and talked about something else
2007-12-22 14:50:43 · update #3
I am really glad that you are still shocked with the way kids your age are behaving these days Denise!
Like I told you in your previous questions the world has turned into hell and morals have gone to the pits. Media has portrayed and convinced young generations that so many things that are immoral are either good or cool! .That is the work of the devil baby!
I see that yours is still intact so do not be swayed and if you are not sure the best way is to go to your parents and ask--do not be afraid little one!!1 They are the ones who are in the best position to lead you to your path of salvation.
So what happened to your pervert classmate who wanted to wet you-is he dead yet???? hahahahaha
2007-12-23 22:26:30 · answer #1 · answered by wolfass 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you know it's true? it could be a rumour spread by somebody or either one of them. And so maybe they don't know each other because they never had sex.
Anyway, some people want and can have sex without any emotional attachment. It's their choice. Some people like to make a big deal out of it. Personally, although you'll probably get hurt one way or another, I think the real heartbreak that comes with that love and "he's the one" would be much worse. I've seen it first hand and it wasn't pretty.
2007-12-22 13:50:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What the hell is a 16 year-old doing in middle school?
There actually is an emotional attachment to sex. Our generation is really jaded and fickle about everything, but nonetheless, we still have human emotions. Part of them ignoring each other is that awkwardness after sex; it's a very awkward situation, especially for first timers. It would usually a few minutes at most as such a young age and it would just be weird. But, it's still impossible to escape the reaction to having sex with someone, people are going to be changed by it, and there is no way of escaping that.
Our generation can't really seem to make its mind up about anything. On one hand, we want to be young forever and depend on our parents like we are used to, and then on the other, we want to grow up right away. That's probably part of the reason that there is no consequence to things, or at least we don't face that consequence. It's whatever we feel like doing, what we see everyone else doing, or what we were brought up to appreciate by the Disney Channel--love and friendship. It seems like an odd theory, but I never really watched Disney Movies and I am extremely mature and self-reliant for my age, and a lot of the people, especially girls, all want to be a Disney Princess in some form or other, and they all act like they can be young forever. Which can't happen, and with that thinking, they make stupid choices, like having sex with a 16 year old when they are in middle school.
2007-12-22 12:28:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
Class giving lap dances. hmmmmm where was the teacher? And was this reported? Did it happen on school grounds?
Deniece, I think you are a bright girl. Keep doing what you are doing.
As for your question: Hormones is an emotion, believe it or not. May not be the right emotion for an type of sex. I agree with you emotional sex with the one your in love with is better. Casual sex doesn't guarantee you respect from the other person. And that is what your friends are witnessing.
2007-12-22 13:09:39 · answer #4 · answered by springful 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The 16 yr old knows he can get sex from almost any 13 yr old and the 13 yr old is thinking she can get sex from any boy she wants.
Guys and girls have been conditioned to see one another as human sex toys to be used and not as human beings, this "de humanizes" the opposite sex and makes them seem less human.You can see it in the way girls present themselves on MTV and any TV show usually.
Some people are also selfish and dont care about others feelings and will use them for sex.
2007-12-22 12:26:50 · answer #5 · answered by Joe F 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's 16 in the 8th grade...(Gasp!) Thats a huge shock! I heard somewhere, (I have know idea where though...)that couples often drift apart after having sex with their partner for the first time. I think I was flipping channels and then the phone rang and it landed on some weird show.
2007-12-23 15:22:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first time I had sex, it was extremely emotional.
I do think its always the most emotional the first time, a feeling you cannot describe.
Besides, you're only 13 or 14. You can't say anything about emotional sexual feelings until you experience it.
2007-12-22 22:45:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really don't know. I think thats just for boys. Most boys have no emotional attachment because they can lie say they're virgins. It won't really bother them to give their bodies to another human being. A girl is more sensitive and isn't really comfortable. Most girls are attached emotionally because its just them. They just want to feel that sensitivity and love from a man.
2007-12-22 12:34:16 · answer #8 · answered by Kanesha J 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they're horny, to be perfectly honest. All these new hormones swarming, peer pressure, needing acceptance from the opposite sex, etc. It happens. Sex should be an expression of the closest bond 2 people can have, but sometimes lust gets in the way.
2007-12-22 12:27:18 · answer #9 · answered by Bluebear 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well it's a wonder why there is a 16 year old in that class! That shows he's probably studying girls, not his work to be held back that long.
It's a shame for them. They should know better.
2007-12-22 12:26:20 · answer #10 · answered by ちょうど、 アナ-ノエル。 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋