2007-12-22 09:44:27 · 22 answers · asked by softkisses4707 5 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
I have been married 27 years and always put effort into it. I leave messages on the bathroom mirror so after his shower the steam makes them appear. I put little cards in his lunch box. If I go out of town I place slips of paper in obvious places like taped to the tooth paste tube, on the milk jug, in the sugar bowl, in his box of cereal, etc. All the slips have little sweet messages : ILYB: you work hard for our family, ILYB: you let me have the last word, etc. ILYB is I Love You Becauase.
I try to make plans once a year for a secret day together. I will pack a suitcase the day before and when we get up I tell him to get dressed in something appropriate and leave for a day in the big city, or just a few hours away to someplace we haven't explored, or even to the motor park speedway. There are many, many things I do. The divorce rate is so high these days because people forget to keep the romance alive.
2007-12-22 09:53:32 · answer #1 · answered by TiaRanita 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A Lot!!Its Very Important Keeping Ur Lover HAppy!!
2007-12-22 17:48:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not my responsibility to put anything there it is my responsibility to keep the spark in my eye then we can share because if it is there it well always be over there. Never false.
Live Long Live Free
2007-12-23 03:39:37 · answer #3 · answered by The answer guy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After a few decades I would say laughter, respect and companionship are equally as important! But you definitely want to keep them interested, problem is they're not the only ones interested. But that definitely works for you too! LOL
2007-12-22 17:48:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's been so long, I think I put lots of effort forth. That's just what i think, might be wrong.
2007-12-22 18:01:45 · answer #5 · answered by redd headd 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot. No spark, no fun, very boring.
2007-12-22 17:47:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i know the sparkle is there, but i guess i have never been conscious of an 'effort'...it comes very easy for me to love my baby!...
2007-12-22 17:48:02 · answer #7 · answered by elchavoguapo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not much effort is needed wherein reciprocity is there.
2007-12-24 02:38:46 · answer #8 · answered by kailash bohra-kailee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not much because we decided 18 years ago that we were meant to be together and that will never change
2007-12-22 17:52:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its been often over the past year and somehow I just havent been able to keep it - its been 11yrs so I guess you could call this a crisis??
2007-12-22 17:47:18 · answer #10 · answered by ashar/97 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋