why so hatefull?

Question

why are people so hatefull towards us crossdressers?what have we done wrong to be looked down on.

Answer 1

I don't hate it or you but I could see how people feel weird towards it. God made you what you are if your gay be gay but don't change who you are

Answer 2

Hate shouldn't be defined as disagreement by other people. Or how you shock them for dressing as a person of the opposite sex. You need to remember that you are the one that is going against the grain in normal society.

What is normal society? Men dress like men and women dress like women. The fact that you want to change what normal society is causes this.The fact that you want to do the opposite and get wierd looks or comments doesn't mean that people hate you. You are just drawing out reaction from society that is not used to seeing that and you call it hatred.

You know that you are different and you should expect it. Don't call it hatred. That is a lie. There are too many special intrest groups that use the same word to get what they want in society and at times, they do. But why would you want to use a lie to do it? What ever you win is based upon a lie. So you live the rest of your life thinking that you have won a great battle for your cause. But deep down in reality, you cheated to do it. Where is the self respect in that? After all. Isn't that what you are fighting for to begine with? Respect.

Answer 3

no one should be hatefull towards others, I'm bisexual and i get comments about being a guy whos bi, or i get the word fag used towards me i ignore it cause im more mature than them every one should ignore it and say so what at least i have the balls guts etc or w/e to do what i please, like if wearing pink makes you a fag in some peoples eyes in others it makes you look strong and not a fag or something all i know is those people wont make it to heaven, they will go directly to hell with out passing go unless they get to the age where the get alshimers and forget everything then their slate gets wipped clean. just like an infint dying. but yea people should look around and not blame others for deaths and ****, we cause deaths but thats cause this world is corrupted. and always will be. so just ignore the haters, and respect the ones who dont hate.

Answer 4

they are afraid of anything that is different. I know I'd be taken back for a moment if I met a crossdresser because it would not be what I expected. but I also say hey if you are comfortable, who am I to complain. Live and let live, and all that good stuff.

Answer 5

The same way they despised Gay people in general. People hates and despised what differs from their short narrow-minded standards. Sad but true.
Enjoy your lifestyle and forget about the prejudices of others.
Rest assured some of the looks are more envy than hate.
Cheers.

Answer 6

because people are judgmental and judge everything and everyone out of their definition of normal. its dumb and stupid and if you or anybody else is a cross dresser than be it, no one can point the finger at you and say you are wrong, or confused, or whatever it is they say, just because they dont understand it. ignore those people and be happy for who you are and be happy with what you do. life is to short to be feeling bad about anything. by the way im not a cross dresser but i just hate the thought of people being treated as they are not human. best of luck.

Answer 7

Im not hateful but the group does arouse curiosity, i mean its must be so mch more harder when your not only gay but a crossdresser! The inner strength one must have to take that extra step and wear what they want in public must be unfathomable.
hope that helps

Answer 8

I can't speak for people. But, I would need to say that people are scared of different things. I do not care if you dress in any different way.

I believe you are the spice of life... you are special and that is all the matters love.

:)

Answer 9

Well I find it a bit weird, but I don't look down on you. You have a right to do what you want to do, and we are all equal. We're all weird too, in some ways, so if that's what you like, then don't worry about what others think.

Peace

Answer 10

to each his/her own.
I have gay friends but I'm not gay. I have seen some cross dressers that look better with the new look.
I think everybody just thinks they need something to hate and follow trends of hatred against whoever they see on the news.

I personally don't believe in hate
be who you are, and be proud

merry christmas

Answer 11

I would not say we are hateful. However, isn't our world confusing enough without making it worse for us to be unable to determine the sex of a person from their appearance?
Even worse is if we are attracted to a person and we later find out we were deceived about what sex they really are. Do you like being deceived? Dressing as the opposite sex is deceptive and preys on people who are vulnerable and are looking for a mate.