Alright my friend told me yesterday something really private, she said her uncle slept in the same bed twice with her. Asked if she liked to fool around and knew any prostitutes. And she said he used to play a game w/her made her close her eyes and supposal put his finger in her mouth saying he’s a dentists. Happened like 10 yrs ago though.
I didn’t know what to say she’s really upset about it.
2007-12-22 07:49:10 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
she's 17 and she's has been to the doctors and too a hospital for a week. when she was asked if anyone sexual harassed her she said no.
2007-12-22 08:06:19 · update #1
Yes it is sexual molestation and she should tell them.
2007-12-30 02:58:49 · answer #1 · answered by Simmi 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes. What age is your friend? It sounds that she is still badly affected by whatever happened. Have you suggested that she should visit her doctor and ask about counselling or therapy? It might even be worthwhile for you to contact a Rape Crisis Centre. They could maybe advise you, or at least point you in the right direction
Also, if your friend is feeling guilty, it is important to reassure her that what happened was not her fault and that she is not to blame in any way
It's understandable if she is reluctant to talk about it, but since she has confided in you, maybe she has decided that she can't deal with it by herself anymore. If you are a bit unsure about how to help her, it might help you if you contact organisations which deal with rape or other abuse. You shouldn't have to take all the responsibility without support and advice. It would be good if your friend did this as well, even if it is hard for her
the only organisation I can think of is - www.rapecrisis.org.uk
I hope that helps
2007-12-22 08:02:55 · answer #2 · answered by peter f 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
This is called grooming. He was grooming her for more. And your friend probobly was testing you to see if she could talk openly to someone and could have more to tell a person willing to listen without judging her. Be a good calm listener. I can only wonder where her mom was? When I was doing a lie detector test for as an applicant for a gov job, the professional 25yrs in the business said 4 out of 5 womens needle jumps when asked if they'd ever abused a child because they themselves had been. Yes my needle jumped, and when I said it was bs, he told me this info. In the old days people knew to separate the sexes for the reason they knew this crap could go on, relatives or not.
2007-12-22 08:16:30 · answer #3 · answered by kim 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
if it became into against your will, and you voiced that, then i might evaluate it molesting. this got here approximately to my ultimate chum an prolonged time in the past and that i instructed her the comparable situation.. additionally, if he retains forcing himself on you, i do no longer think of it rather is a solid thought which you would be able to additionally be pals with him. while it comes all the way down to it, some persons are extra desirable off handed over of your existence.
2016-10-09 02:16:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, what your friend's uncle did was very wrong. She should ask her parents to put her in counseling because she's still hurting from this abuse and it seems like more might have happened than what she told you.
2007-12-22 07:56:39 · answer #5 · answered by Elizabeth M 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes. She was molested by her uncle. What he said and (God knows) whatever he actually did were both sexual deviation practiced by a pervert.
C. :)!!
2007-12-22 07:55:55 · answer #6 · answered by Charlie Kicksass 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is a form of sexual deviancy,the guy is a pervert.
2007-12-22 07:58:26 · answer #7 · answered by wanna know 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
yes you should consider reporting him he could be trying to ruin innocent lives right now
2007-12-22 07:59:18 · answer #8 · answered by madderstill 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
YES 100%, 100%, 100%
REPORT HIM
2007-12-22 07:57:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
yes it is ! tell your friend to tell someone responsible like her parents , her doctor, or her teacher.
2007-12-22 08:14:26 · answer #10 · answered by Don_$armad 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋