We keep a lodger, my wife, Dot, and I, John Peerybingle. She is so much younger than me! And we have a baby. Recently I just thought... suspected... Maybe I am wrong, but I suspect that she is having an affair with the lodger. What should I do?
2007-12-22 07:32:03 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Arts & Humanities ➔ Books & Authors
we have a nanny for the baby, Tilly Slowboy
2007-12-22 07:37:55 · update #1
go play some Cricket on the Hearth
2007-12-22 07:35:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
Wow. She basically instructed you she had an affair with yet another guy 3 days in the past and is dissatisfied which you're no longer interested in intercourse?!?! How does she anticipate you to accomplish whn you basically found out she has been untrue? She does not precisely sounds apologtic approximately it and truthfully nevertheless tries to place the blame on you together with her 'reason'. An affair isn't some thing you recover from in some days or perhaps few weeks. it rather is totally honorable which you agreed to objective to artwork it out (i understand i could no longer if my husband ever did) in spite of the shown fact that it sounds like she basically expects you to recover from it. i actually think of you prefer counseling in case you or your spouse prefer any danger of saving this marriage. I could desire to ponder whether you're the two youthful or ogt married youthful as she sounds rather immature given the seriousness of what has got here approximately on your marriage.
2016-10-09 02:16:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sir, these are the things which destroy marriages never doubt a woman until you have seen her having a affair neither listen to people who say this bull without proof... ... Of course u said that your wife is young and this is natural suspicion that u gonna surround with but just trust your wife.... and if you are not satisfied and still in suspicion try to keep a close eye on your wife.. But i don't advice you to doing that .... but still for ur satisfaction.... And you say u have a baby i don't think she could forget about the baby and have an affair.... Keep her busy.......or love her more like no one could love her ... and think about the baby before taking any step.....
2007-12-22 07:44:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 2⤋
First of all....what makes you think this? Just because she a lot younger than yourself does not make her more likely to cheat. She married you for a reason! If the two of you just had a baby it sounds like the relationship is probably going well and a new baby in a relationship makes it all the more bliss-full. Make sure you pay extra close attention to her. She may think she's "lost her touch" (if you know what I mean) and if shes flirting with this lodger she just wants to make sure shes still got it....even after having a baby. I'm sure shes not cheating on you! Just make sure you spoil her just as much as you are spoiling your new bundle of joy that way she doesn't go looking for the attention elsewhere
2007-12-22 07:39:58 · answer #4 · answered by lnbmine 1 · 3⤊ 4⤋
Relax Mr. Dickens..She's not having an affair.
Go play some Cricket on the Hearth.
2007-12-22 07:36:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
Well, whatever you do, DON'T do anything illegal--you're bound to be caught.
How old is the baby, by the way? If your little one is still an infant, I doubt that your wife has either the time or the energy to expend on an affair with your lodger--or anybody else, for that matter.
2007-12-22 07:36:43 · answer #6 · answered by Chrispy 7 · 0⤊ 5⤋
Be sensible, John - ask a cricket; everyone knows that crickets never lie
2007-12-22 07:38:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 7⤊ 0⤋
You should try a few different methods. Spying is a good way to figure it out. Try to follow her for a few days (without her noticing, of course). You may want to have a private investigator if you have the funds. As a last resort, you may want to confront her, but be warned, once you confront her she will know that you suspect her if she is having an affiar, making it more difficult to spy on her.
2007-12-22 07:38:12 · answer #8 · answered by Levi W 3 · 1⤊ 5⤋
kick the lodger out. if you think that is happening then just kick him out. that or confront your wife with the problem and she what she says about it. that other person is right DONT DO ANYTHING ILLEGAL.
2007-12-22 07:40:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
what's a lodger
2007-12-22 07:35:34 · answer #10 · answered by Spaz Attack 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋