i mean we love our parents coz they brought us up well and are endearing.....but would we hv loved them if they had been cruel and stolid kinda ppl? similarly we love someone for some reasons like beauty, good habbits, or other +ve traits....... does this shows we r all mean to some extent?
2007-12-22 04:28:36 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
No, I do not,
2007-12-22 04:31:51 · answer #1 · answered by Rana 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unconditional love is an ideal. In real life, of course we have conditions. Otherwise we'd be taken advantage of, we'd put up with horrible situations, be miserable all the time, etc. Maybe instead call them "standards".
It's not mean, it's common sense.
2007-12-22 14:41:28 · answer #2 · answered by Marina 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes we do love our parents, but it is conditional, and is based on how we were treated, or perceived ourselves to be treated, when we were young. some people do fall in love for silly reasons such as looks or money, but true unconditional love?? get a dog, or a cat, they know how to love someone unconditionally. and yes, we are all mean to some extent.
2007-12-22 12:32:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
excuse me we love somebody when we get love in return .if somebody is beautiful brainy etc it doesn't mean we love them .it is just we like them. dont get confused between love and like .similarly if par rent will love us we will love them but if they dont love us then they will not get love from us no doubt they have given birth to us.love is give and take policy. so you can say it is conditionally but reason is only love.
2007-12-22 12:41:08 · answer #4 · answered by SHIVA 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋