My husband and I have been having unprotected sex for 7 yrs now. We have been using the most unsafe method of birth control... withdrawal and I have never been pregnant. Is one of us infertile or maybe both. We are now mature 28 and completeing up our edcation and will soon will want kids.
2007-12-22 02:58:17 · 16 answers · asked by START 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
well see what happens when he doesn't withdrawal , and then if nothing happens for 6months or so, go get some tests done on both of you
2007-12-22 03:01:01 · answer #1 · answered by steven s 4 · 7⤊ 0⤋
hi there wow 7 yrs has been long! and if u havent still convceived maybe it was not the best time. so u try this out now ok. ONce u get ur mensus count 14 days from thay time ok. so once its over u can have unprotected sex u wont get preg but u know towards the 13 and 14th day u will know when on eof ur ovaries lets out its egg...during that tim eu can have sex and u are sure to get pregnant okay!! then again after 2 days or 3 days u can have unprotected sex for say till u are close to ur mensus day. for Eg: * u get ur mensus on 28th Dec. then on Jan say between 10th - 14th Jan u have sex!! it could work then. or esle agian count 13 days lets say between 21st of Jan -25thJan u can again have unprotected sex and ur sure to get preg with a beautiful child!!
All th best..hope this will work! if it duz dont forget to inform me abt it okay? h aha...trust me i know abt these dates well!! coz i knew exactly i was gonna get preg and i did. so u try it and see. if it duzn work..then dont owrry..u go and see a good gyno.
BYe now.
2007-12-22 04:27:42 · answer #2 · answered by Marki 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
solid: you have the two been speaking. you have the two agreed on what happens if birth control fails. Questions: have you ever the two been examined and given a sparkling bill of wellbeing? Does she strictly word her contraceptive dosage ordinary and take it on the comparable time each and every day? Are you the two keen to briefly pass back to condoms for a cycle if she misses a dose? have you ever the two EXPLICITLY agreed to be monogamous or to apply condoms with the different companions? Are you 2 open and trusting sufficient to certainly communicate any mess ups interior the monogamy settlement without it being a courting-ending disaster? Does she actively dislike toddlers and exhibit a honest volume of desire to no longer have any? in case you answer no to any of those, you're exposing your self to a hazard. i'm excessive approximately this. See the J. intercourse Res precis related under. purely fifty two% of couples had the two companions explicitly agreeing to be monogamous, and 29% of those youthful couples who did have breached it.
2016-11-24 19:46:42 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't stress out yet. My husband and I have always used the same method of birth control and never got pregnant when we weren't trying. Both times that we conceived we knew that I was ovulating and he did not pull out. Don't worry!!
2007-12-22 03:03:15 · answer #4 · answered by Trent&Lilah'sMomma 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You have to be strong willed for that method - or at least the bloke does. Nothing to say your infertile and I bet your feller will be one relieved guy to start blasting away when you eventually do start. Good luck,
2007-12-22 03:03:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You and your husband need to go see a fertility specialist. They will be able to help you in finding out if you are infertile and also what other methods are available to you if you are.
2007-12-22 03:00:46 · answer #6 · answered by N and A's Momma 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You might want to go a doctor and they could prescribe medicine to help you get pregnant. It could be that you are still using birth controls.
Good Luck.
2007-12-22 03:01:25 · answer #7 · answered by CT 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Youve been married for seven years and cant figure this out? Start worrying about it when you want kids AFTER he stops withdrawing!
2007-12-22 03:03:26 · answer #8 · answered by G G 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Not necessarily. Your best bet is to go to a doctor.
2007-12-22 03:00:19 · answer #9 · answered by Tikva 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Both of you should see doctors about it.
2007-12-22 03:00:13 · answer #10 · answered by Scarlett 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋