hard fact you've learned in life?

Question

share your wisdom so we can all learn from it :)

Answer 1

People is Satan.

Answer 2

Here is good advice from Montana ......


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Advice from an old Montana Rancher

Your fences need to be horse-high, pig-tight and bull-strong.
Keep skunks and bankers and lawyers at a distance.
Life is simpler when you plow around the stump.
A bumble bee is considerably faster than a John Deere tractor.
Words that soak into your ears are whispered . . . not yelled.
Meanness don't jes' happen overnight.
Forgive your enemies. It messes up their heads.
Do not corner something that you know is meaner than you.
It don't take a very big person to carry a grudge.
You cannot unsay a cruel or unkind word.
Every path has a few puddles.
When you wallow with pigs, expect to get dirty.
The best sermons are lived, not preached.
Most of the stuff people worry about ain't never gonna happen anyway.
Don't judge folks by their relatives.
Remember that silence is sometimes the best answer.
Live a good, honorable life. Then when you get older and think back, you'll enjoy it a second time.
Don't interfere with somethin' that ain't botherin' you none.
Timing has a lot to do with the outcome of a rain dance.
If you find yourself in a hole, stop diggin'.
Sometimes you get and sometimes you get got.
The biggest troublemaker you'll probably ever have to deal with, watches you from the mirror every mornin'.
Always drink upstream from the herd.
Good judgment comes from experience and a lotta that comes from bad judgment.
Lettin' the cat outta the bag is a whole lot easier than puttin' it back in.
If you get to thinkin' you're a person of some influence, try orderin' somebody else's dog around.
Live simply.
Love generously.
Care deeply.

Speak kindly
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Answer 3

I liked the answer of Kyala C. When you are down nobody cares you - may be your wife, your parents, your children or your friends. Hence being self reliant is very important.

When I was just 14 years, being the eldest, I had to take the responsibility of my parents, 2 sisters and 4 brothers. No income. I have struggled for the survival of my family. I have learnt many lessons of life a hard way. If I look back, life has taught me many lessons which made my future life easier.

I have never took short-cuts or cheated anybody to solve my problems. With the inspiration of Mahatma Gandhi, I followed the path of Truth. Worked hard which paid off well. Today I am a satisfied and proud of my achievements. Like - making my parents happy and supported my brothers and sisters for their self reliance.

The Lesson :Work hard, follow truth, lead simple life.

Answer 4

People are not always how they seem.
-no matter how much you trust someone or think you know them, they could be a completely different person and you might end up getting hurt.

You can't always get what you want.
-even if everyone around you is happy, you learn to just accept the fact that life isn't fair.

Imperfections are perfect
-it's hard to learn that your flaws are what makes you, you. even if there are those that seem perfect.


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Answer 5

which you may not have faith all of us. It got here approximately through way I landed on earth. for some years i became into very naive, as much as the age of 40 9. i became into very trusting, and had many so pronounced as pals. Then because it surpassed off I fell ill and went to my so pronounced as pals for suggestions. as a replace what they did became into abuse me, and % to take my funds and just about positioned me in a coffin and bury me. This became into all an extremely painful realisation. So I learnt the demanding way.

Answer 6

Physical reality is nothing more than a probable state of possibilities that is non-local and without history until a consciousness/awareness/mind makes and observation which causes a collapse of quantum states into what we call reality/matter/energy and that in order to avoid being illogical one must consider that consciousness exist alongside matter, energy, time and space to form the complete definition of reality.
That which we refer to as reality is nonexistent without us but to consider humans to be the primary consciousness involved in the creation of physical reality is absurd and willfully stubborn grandiose.
"Blinded by their own sight, hearing, feeling, and knowing, they do not perceive the spiritual brilliance of the source of all substance even as it is reflected from within them all."
Quote from teachings of zen philosophy.

Answer 7

I agree with the first answerer. Death is a harsh fact. Especially of one whom we loved and those who loved us. They were there here may be few hours before talking to us, walking with us, laughing with us. But now, what all remains is the body without any movements.

Answer 8

After you've been mashing red hot chile peppers all afternoon? DO NOT!! and I mean DO NOT GO TO THE URINAL WITHOUT WASHING AALLLL OF THE OIL OFF YOUR HANDS AND THEN WEAR LATEX GLOVES WHEN HANDLING THE POOR PENIS!!!!!
That stuff really burns and it does not go away.

Answer 9

It might sound silly but its true..the hardest thing that I have learned is that life is not always fair, what goes around does not always come around, and that horrible things happen to great people and wonderful things happen to the bad ones.

Answer 10

That some men are born destined for greatness while others are destined to hit rock bottom and be failures.

Answer 11

Too many people lack common sense.
Some people just have an easier life than others, and it's been that way since they were born.
Too many people are cruel.
To attain anything positive requires much sacrifice.