What should I do about teenage pregnancy.?

Question

I am 14 years old and I am pregant. The problem is that my mom always tells me and my sister that if we ever get she is done with us. Do you think she means it? And also the father is very immature and i know he probably wouldn't take responsibilty. What should I do? Should I tell my mom?

Answer 1

Ok i have to say all 14 year olds are immature and can't even take care of themselves cause they are still relying on mommy and daddy to take care of them. You are going to have to tell so why not just do it?
I would say your mom could do what she says. Look at it from her point of view....Your own daughter will have a baby and that will be another mouth for her to feed and to take care of. You may say oh no my mom will not take care of your child but the truth is she will cause where will you be living if she helps you? Who's food will you be eating? Who will be driving you here and there? That is right your mom will.

I would tell your mom and discuss your options.
Good luck

Answer 2

I really don't think your own mother would actually go through with it. You're her daughter. How can she tell you she is done with you if you get pregnant? It is best you let her know as soon as possible. It's going to be hard, but it'll be worth it.

Seek medical attention immediately. Since your so young, it is best. Your young, yes, but there's a possibility you'll have a healthy baby with medical attention. I wish you luck.

As for your boyfriend, tell him what he needs to know. No matter how immature he is, he's going to have to step up to the plate and take the responsibility. Be stern about it. If he isn't going to be much help, there's ways around him. There's help out there. Plus, your concern is for you and your child. Don't let an immature guy bring you down. I wish you well and take care.

Violet

Answer 3

Well, I am not sure she means it. She might have just been telling you that because she thought that infact would not make you actually go and do it. I know that most moms are very understanding when it comes to pregnancy and sex. If you admit you made a mistake and what you want to do etc. it should be ok. I think you should go ahead and tell your mom. Its very hard for me to say if she actually means it or not. Well, the father would need to pay child support then if you wanted to take him to court which means he would have to take responsibility for it.

Answer 4

Yes, you should tell your mom no matter what. I know is hard. But if you just wait until the belly pups up then you are going to be in more trouble. All parents say the same thing but they will still help you even though you mess up. The father has to take care of him no matter how imature he is. Well hun good luck and don't worry there's someone who will always help!

Answer 5

I know you should tell your mom. She probly just said that cause she doesn't want you to get pregnant before you are married. You are only 14 and had sex? If you boyfriend is immature then dump him and get childsupport. And if he refuses to give money make him sign up his right to see him/her. Maby you should talk to your mom about this. She might have said that she would be done with you all. But she loves you. And she will stick by you no matter what.

Answer 6

Im 15 and your mom will always love you know matter what! She may be mad for a couple of days but she will get over it and you 2 will work this out! My friend got pregnant at 13 and she decided not to tell her mom and her mom realized her stomach getting bigger and she was always throwing up! When her mom confronted her she was sooo mad and she told my friend that if she would have told her mom without letting her find out on her own she wouldnt have been so mad! So tell her!

Answer 7

No, I don't think your mum really means it. Your parents love you very much, and will support you if you tell them (which you should). Its your choice if you want the father of your child in your life. If you don't think that he'll be a good influence on the child, don't let him. If you do find yourself in a situation where your all by yourself, talk to a school counselor about living in a youth hostel or with one of your friends for a while. You might also want to call an Unplanned Pregnancy hotline.

Best of luck!!

Answer 8

You're not going to have a choice. Your mom at some point WILL find out, and she will probably be more upset that you didn't tell her. You also need to tell her so you can start going to the doctor and so that you can figure out what you are going to do. It sucks, but in this situation, you have to be mature and face the music.

Answer 9

shes going to be mad! but you need to tell your mom first always, your health sould come first! she may or may not mean it, but she cant throw you out. as for the father you might want to try gettin him on child support is he is not going to help, or if you think you would do better wihtout him dont worrie with it. but you deffently need to tell your mom. im 15 and pregnant i wait to tell my mom. something could have been wrong with the baby luckly it wasnt but the way my body reacted to being pregnant i had high blood pressure and that could have hurt the baby and me. so you need to tell her so yall can actually sit and talk about what some things you could do are. and please dont abort! its murder, adoption is 100% better! but best of luck with everything honey!

Answer 10

No matter what you will have to tell your mom. Breaking the news to her won't be easy. Perhaps you can write a note to her or have a good friend help you tell her.

Hopefully she will support you through this and with any decisions you make. I wish you the best of luck!