I'm going out with a girl i met online in a couple days. We've been talking online, have talked on the phone, and are meeting in public. I'm a bisexual female, and have never been on a date with a girl before. On top of that, I've never been on a blind date or met anyone online. I'm so nervous!! What to wear, what to talk about(i'm shy and know i'm going to blush like crazy!).
As a side note, we BOTH have boyfriends who are supportive of our lifestyle, and aware of whats going on. they aren't a part of it AT ALL. i know it sounds a little strange but I don't need any advice on that end of it, i love my relationship. I'm just so used to being with a man, I haven't ever been on a date with a girl! help :)
2007-12-20 15:46:18 · 7 answers · asked by sadie 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I think your biggest problem is meeting this person you know nothing about. Yes, you have talked on the computer and telephone, but meeting someone in person is completely different. So be alert, be careful, and if you feel uncomfortable for any reason call it off. Dress like you would if you were going out on any date not too sexy not too conservative - show some cleavage and some leg but do not go to extremes. Talk about most anything as you would on any other date. The woman you meet will have the same concerns. Don't start off talking about sex use that time to get better acquainted. As time goes on the conversation will probably turn to sex and escalate from there. Again, remember you do not have to go to bed with her, if you have any doubts cut it off before you get to the hotel or wherever you are going. Otherwise have a nice night out and have fun.
2007-12-20 16:55:35 · answer #1 · answered by Kayla S 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Personally I think you should shower, wear something casual, take a deep breath, meet this girl in person and see how it goes from there. It might be nice to meet another 'bi' friend you can hang out with and if something is going to happen between the two of you, let that be natural.
As for the boyfriends, assuming you do connect with the girl, I doubt they would truly be enthused with the idea of them not being involved, I could be wrong but I'm speculating that they wont be 'okay' with the two of you hanging out and fooling around time and time again without an invitation.
Good luck and have fun!
2007-12-20 16:33:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
the 1st step to information is, properly...wanting to comprehend. She sounds like an extremely bitter, nasty, closed-minded woman. ideally, her age could qualify her to step up and be the grownup in this difficulty. It sounds like she needs to take training from you and her daughter, although. Hmm. in line with hazard you 3 ought to take a seat down and have a no-scuffling with communicate approximately this. No raised voices. No hateful names. No "you frequently..." accusations. She needs to comprehend that this determination is MADE. Her daughter's orientation is what it is. she will the two locate herself a advantageous snug seat on the Haveaclue prepare or she will hoof it with the clueless. If she boards the Haveaclue prepare, she needs to comprehend that her dating together with her daughter won't postpone through hateful namecalling and absence of acceptance and regular bitchiness. She has that determination. i wish she makes the final one. good luck to you from some without delay guy in FL whom you never met. invoice
2016-12-11 10:38:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm... Well I guess you're open to the idea that your boyfriend can go out with another guy or another girl, too.
If that's okay with you, then take a shower, put on a nice outfit, and go have a nice time. Just be prepared for your boyfriend's jealousy if you happen to want to spend a lot of time with this woman.
Personally, I don't think you're as ready for this as you think you are.
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2007-12-20 15:56:45 · answer #4 · answered by NHBaritone 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well i think dress the way that best describes u. try to be your self. As for wat to talk about find something u have in common or things you both like to do. As for your boyfriend thing i just broke up because she had a boyfriend/fiance. If u do plane to go out then make sure ur not cheating on each other.
2007-12-20 15:58:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
um yeh it anit safe theres heaps of risks ur taking but basically how to u perpare wen u go on a date wif ur bf jush make sua u have a shower and smell nice and dont take it too serious relaz and b urself
2007-12-20 15:51:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
give her a gift on the first date just a small gift to be nice :)
2007-12-20 15:58:31 · answer #7 · answered by hhhiiiiiiii peoples 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋