Am I a bad person if I find 2 of my male co-workers who speak about my female friend to be annoying?

Question

All they talk about is:

"I'd like to tap dat"
"Damn that girl is fine"
"I want to settle down with her in my trailer"
"She's delicious"
"She's hot!"

So I go up to her and tell her this and she's like omg why are they talking about me, what creeps.

I seriously have thought about just clocking them in hopes to knock some sense into them, but would it be worth it to lose my job and possibly go to jail for a really good friend?

Answer 1

No. Just walk away or tell them that she's a good friend of yours and you don't want to hear their crap. After that avoid them. If they start talking about her and your around just walk away.

Answer 2

You would be far wiser to drop an anonymous complaint to human resources. What you're describing does fall under sexual harassment - even though you are not being directly harassed. It is a conversation of a sexual nature that makes you uncomfortable in the work place.

Answer 3

I recommend that you alert the supervisor about this. That kind of thing definitely shouldn't be going on.

Also, have you tried to confront (not physically) those men? Just wondering.

Glad to see that you're being a good friend. :)

Answer 4

you dont have to hit them ( cant believe i said that) but when you here it just in a very calm but aggressive manner tell them you dont like the way they are talking about her ..throw a few curse words in there as you are looking at them back and forth directly in their eyes

Answer 5

i think u shud go up to them an tell them that they are being inapropriate about ur friend!! liek when the boy is my class sed my gurlfriend was hot i told him to knock it off an he stopped ♥

Answer 6

Not at all.