I never forget anything a word or a slight sometimes I cut people off like that. Even my family a few of them I hate thier guts? Is something wrong with me if it is then what?
2007-12-20 14:47:54 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Grudges and hatred can be pretty heavy baggage to tote around in one's psyche. Have you never done or said anything thoughtless in your life? If not, then you're a saint.
To answer your question, there's not necessarily something wrong with you. As for there being something wrong with *them*, if you truly believe that about every single person you claim to hate, then you could be labelled paranoid.
Time to rethink who you are ... and maybe learn to laugh a few things off before you drive yourself mad. Good luck!
2007-12-20 15:04:49 · answer #1 · answered by Marel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hold grudges too, but not to the extent that you appear to. But the thing with holding grudges is you have to remember everybody makes mistakes, and if you expect to be forgiven for mistakes you should be willing to forgive others. There is little you can do if that is how you are, except try to be more patient.
2007-12-20 22:52:14 · answer #2 · answered by Smoove 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow your like a replica of me. I used to do the same exact thing. but one day i realized that it was sooooo pointless. someone said to me, man your wayy to serious. and i thought about it and he was right. you may not understand now or even in the next couple of years. but one day you will understand that holding grudges are pointless and just makes you less happy. Don't take things everything seriously and be happy. trust me i was like you. Nothing is wrong with you, you will grow out of this phase. the sooner the better.
2007-12-20 22:52:32 · answer #3 · answered by Tyrone X 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not hold grudges, maybe because I have a short memory, but one thing to remember is we all make mistakes or say something that did not come out right or misunderstood. there are erasers on pencils because we make mistakes.
2007-12-20 22:52:12 · answer #4 · answered by Resolute 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to know when to choose your battles really. If these grudges eat away at you and you still find annoyance in them...you may have a problem with moving on. I guess thats something you need to work on, moving on.
2007-12-20 22:51:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing is wrong with you! You could just have a personality that is not compatible with some people. You could be a tad high maintenance, but don't worry. Other people will love that in you!
2007-12-20 22:51:53 · answer #6 · answered by NicoooL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you live in the past you will die in the past so to we say forget yesterday and think about tomorrow you are given one life live it in a posit ive way not a neg itiv way you will die inside if you live that way.
2007-12-20 22:55:10 · answer #7 · answered by twa5150 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its alright to hold a grudge, alot of people do.. if you keep forgiving someone thats going to give them permission to keep hurting you. you should stay hard hearted.
2007-12-20 22:53:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You think that your feelings are more important than anything else. You want people to forgive you for your shortcomings but you do not want to do the same.
2007-12-20 22:52:40 · answer #9 · answered by TAT 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would you hold a grudge to anyone, you should learn to appreciate what is here now. stop being self centered and just live baby "LIVE HAPPY, ITs CHRISTMAS SEASON"
2007-12-20 22:57:46 · answer #10 · answered by just me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋