always overlooked how does this make you feel?
2007-12-20 13:18:40 · 15 answers · asked by ♥BEX♥ 7 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Like a huge disappointment. When nothing you ever do is ever good enough, you learn to stop trying so hard. It's nice to have someone tell you when you made a mistake, when you're completely oblivious to the mistake that you made. But when it's clear that you messed up in a specific way, people shouldn't point it out; we beat ourselves up enough already.
2007-12-20 13:27:21 · answer #1 · answered by Absent Glare 3 · 5⤊ 0⤋
I imagine it would make me feel sad, but I would probably try to figure out why I was being overlooked, and take steps to remedy the situation, whether that be changing something about myself, getting more education, etc.
It very well may be that you just haven't found your niche. Counseling (career or psychological) might help.
2007-12-20 13:31:11 · answer #2 · answered by HyperDog 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
sometimes when i am at work i feel unappreciated...like no one is listening...also my ex...i suggested a colour scheme for his living room one day and he said he didn't really like it, but the next day his daughter said exactly the same as me and he thought the idea was great...so i can see who's opinions he valued the most...he made me feel worthless, my idea word mean jack to him...this is one of the reasons why i broke up with him...it was like i was invisible and not worth his time...
EDIT ..make 2008 yours hun because that's what i'm going to do...f*ck what other people think in future...i know for a fact that i won't be trying to impress HIM or anyone else any more....he's not good enough for me...and not the other way round..his loss..and he will realise what he lost, now that it's gone...i WON'T be looking back....
2007-12-21 10:00:02 · answer #3 · answered by Dazzlebox 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't stand for that Bex, I'd demand to know why! saying that, thats my personality, loud and outspoken and don't take any shite, still there are times when I've done things for people and haven't been appreciated at all, just recently in fact, as if I don't have enough going on with my kids and a high risk pregnancy, still I can't abide selfish b@stards, so I told them to f*ck off! LOL
2007-12-21 09:51:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure you're not my youngest daughter or eldest granddaughter ??!!
Mind you being the 'pessimist' gives them HUGE highs, as well. when things are 'Hunky Dorey'
You come across as a lovely lady but you need more holidays in Tenerife !
Are you sure you're not just suffering from 'S A D '?
It'll soon be Spring and although it's a bit chilly today, I look out of my window and the blossom is on the trees already -so it won't be long
Merry Christmas to you and yours !
2007-12-20 23:23:08 · answer #5 · answered by nanny chris w 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
To be honest I was deemed once not good enough by someone close and it was at time devestating and hounded me for many years low confidence low self esteem etx but then I learnt who I was what I was and I was not the person the other thought I was I am me.
2007-12-20 20:57:50 · answer #6 · answered by momof3 7 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Like Shite sometimes bex......that's why I'm determined to get the job I want in 2008. Not being fobbed off again due to internal politics !!
2007-12-20 23:38:11 · answer #7 · answered by ♥ Beaver Diva Sue ♥ 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Insignificant-not appreciated enough...
But then you get over it, when you realize your own self-worth and just do whatever you do to the best of your ability. It may not be recognized, but at least you will have your pride in your own work. I have this belief...it may not be 100% accurate, but I try to believe that if you don't call attention to yourself, but you still do your best work--someone will recognize you.
2007-12-20 14:03:08 · answer #8 · answered by nat 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Rejected Bex. Believe in yourself and love yourself - that is the most important thing - more than other people's opinions. Feel sorry for those who make you feel that way as it is them who has the problem Bex not you. xxx
2007-12-20 20:06:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
i know exactly how you feel. i feel the same way. my accomplishments are the same as many others yet i often go unrecognized for it. i dont get it. i've learned that i need to realize it my self and be proud in other ways. rewarding yourself is not a bad thing and i think confidence (not *********) will bring a lot more rewards your way.
2007-12-20 13:26:41 · answer #10 · answered by lalie 3 · 5⤊ 0⤋