2007-12-20 13:08:20 · 40 answers · asked by Denice 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
geez...at 13? I'm pretty sure you should wait... until you are at least 17 or 18... 13 is WAY too young!
2007-12-20 14:35:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should seriously consider waiting a few years. First, your body is saying it's not ready yet, not mature enough for sex. Let yourself develop physically and mentally. Sex is something a person should want to do for their own reasons, not because somebody else wants you to. You need to learn about safe sex and sexually transmitted diseases too. There is every reason NOT to have sex at 13, not the least of it being that it could cause you a lifetime of problems according to a new study out last week. Both very early and very late have their own problems. Being in that midrange, 17-22 or so seems to be best for future health. How old is your boyfriend. Two 13 year old teens were charged with child sexual abuse for having sex with each other. If he is older he might find himself charged with what used to be called "statuatory rape". As the old saying went "Sixteen (yrs old) will get you twenty (years in prison). It won't do you any good. You could end up pregnant before your first period. It happens every now and then.
2007-12-20 13:21:50 · answer #2 · answered by Freddd 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all since your only thirteen you shouldnt have sex. uhm thats way too young and you dont want people calling you a whore. And as far as your period goes you can still have sex even if you havent, but sex is a big thing. You shouldnt just give it up to anyone. Especially at thirteen. Even if you have been dating a long time. Thats still not right.
2007-12-20 13:13:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you a follower or a leader? Do you do everything that others tell you? If most of these answers tell you NO! Will you still do it? You need to realize that you are physically not ready, you are not producing any sexual lubrication's nor are you having your period as stated...you would not get pregnant but you most likely would not get any enjoyment from it either, so why do it? Just to please him, how old is this kid? Your 13 so your most likely in the 7th grade...Wow, I hope that you really become a leader and tell this horny boy to go masturbate and leave you alone!!! Please consider everything and I know you will make the right decision!!!
2007-12-20 13:24:06 · answer #4 · answered by Joel H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
JUST SAY NO! You are too young for sex and really shouldn't participate in sex until you are married. This boy needs to not pressure you so tell him no and if he still pressures you, dump him and tell your parents. Just because you don't have your period yet, doesn't mean you should take that chance and especially give away your virginity.
2007-12-20 13:17:54 · answer #5 · answered by JD 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Enjoy sex before u get your period, cuz u can have all the fun and not worry about being pregnant! Also for those who judge about how immature you are just by your age, they need to smarten up, just becuz some 13 year olds are too dumb to think, doesn't mean all are, stop the stereo-typing!
2007-12-22 08:36:14 · answer #6 · answered by cooldude 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you havent got your period your body is not ready to have sex. You wont even have fully developed sexual desires. If you arent developed and he wants to have sex with you...either hes your age and an idiot. Or hhes older and a CREEP. Because undeveloped girls are still children in every sense of the word and you really shouldnt have sex because you wont even enjoy it!
You should ditch the boyfriend.
2007-12-20 13:15:21 · answer #7 · answered by munchkin 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No! do not have sex. If he quite cares about he will wait. Your to youthful. And believe me your no longer the in uncomplicated words 13 12 months previous that hasn't had sex. What i imagine is that he's basically an desirable 16 12 months previous virgin! And he's being made relaxing of. do not fall for his tricks. and do not let him attempt to cajole you by telling you "i idea you loved me". i understand it will make you unhappy and also you'd be wanting to provide way yet tell him "I do love you. yet in case you adore me you'll wait until eventually i'm waiting" yet in case you do finally end up having sex (it is the stupidest element you would possibly want to do) ensure he wears a condom. i understand you haven't began your era yet what in case your about to commence then that would want to point that you would possibly want to be in a position to finally end up pregnant. And getting pregnant is between the hardest element to attend to especially if all he needed became sex from you. yet please do not do it. Having sex might want to be some thing that you would possibly want to be in a position to delight in at the same time as your older no longer now. Your basically 13. i understand you want to advance up quickly yet delight in being a touch female. believe me. If i might want to i might want to flow lower back to kindergarten haha. So basically wait and do not have sex. And if he brakes up with you do not cry basically be at liberty you probably did no longer have sex with him because in case you probably did then him breaking apart with you'd be a million cases worst.
2016-10-19 21:43:10 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
allright, well i'm not saying that you should have sex or anything,
but some people need to understand what there talking about before they awnser,
to those who say you need to tell him no because your still in "elementany school"
i was 13 in 9th grade, taking 11th grade classes,
sure some people could be immature at 13, and too young to have sex.
but i disagree with all the people that are basing this just on your age.
personally i think you should do what ever you would like,
if you think the relationship is going somewhere, and you know your completly ready, go ahead.
just remember to be safe. :]
2007-12-20 14:14:44 · answer #9 · answered by Taylor. 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Absolutely do not have sex. For one thing, you're not done with puberty. For another thing, you're 13... you don't want to lose your virginity now! It's not something you can take back. You should wait until you're older and find someone who is kind and caring, someone you really love, who can guide you through losing it. It can be painful and unpleasant if you're not with the right guy, trust me, you want the right guy!
I'm so thankful I waited to have sex until I met my husband... at very least, I'm glad I lost my virginity to someone who was sensitive to my needs at the time.
2007-12-20 13:20:27 · answer #10 · answered by Aia S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your father. He'll kick some teenage boy @ss. Problem solved. The obvious answer is to tell your boyfriend that you are not ready for sex (and won't be for a long while) either physically or emotionally and if he can't respect that and stop pestering you for sex than find a new boyfriend.
2007-12-20 13:14:08 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋